Jul 10, 2026 · 17 min · 10 segments
In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke is back — and she’s got a lot to catch up on. She opens up about stepping away this season to be a more intentional mother, and takes us along on a hilariously…
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[upbeat music] [laughs] Guys, I swear, I don't know if I'm supposed to start with an apology or a, on my knees, because I feel like I've been so naughty this year.
Like, I've been so inconsistent with our videos, our catch-up time, and it's been really, really bad.
But you guys have to also understand, I've never been a mom before, and one of the things that was important for me in this season was to be an intentional mother.
Now, I've oftentimes heard things like every woman can have it all, and I believe that we can.
But I'm also a believer that we can have it all, but maybe not at the same time.
Something in your life will definitely give way to another, and that has been my journey this year.
And I don't regret it, because I love my community, and I love the people that have grown with me.
And I know that you guys have also grown in different aspects of your lives, and this is mine, unfiltered, the truth, you know? I took some time out, some weeks out, actually, uh, to take my daughter on holiday because I felt like we needed a change of scenery.
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[upbeat music] [laughs] Guys, I swear, I don't know if I'm supposed to start with an apology or a, on my knees, because I feel like I've been so naughty this year.
Like, I've been so inconsistent with our videos, our catch-up time, and it's been really, really bad.
But you guys have to also understand, I've never been a mom before, and one of the things that was important for me in this season was to be an intentional mother.
Now, I've oftentimes heard things like every woman can have it all, and I believe that we can.
But I'm also a believer that we can have it all, but maybe not at the same time.
Something in your life will definitely give way to another, and that has been my journey this year.
And I don't regret it, because I love my community, and I love the people that have grown with me.
And I know that you guys have also grown in different aspects of your lives, and this is mine, unfiltered, the truth, you know? I took some time out, some weeks out, actually, uh, to take my daughter on holiday because I felt like we needed a change of scenery.
