Episode 48: You're Getting Everything Done. But Is It What You Want?
If there's anything I know about you, it's that you're REALLY good at taking care of business.
You lead the team. You make the decisions. You solve the problems. You manage employees, clients, finances, and somehow still remember your daughter's dentist appointment.
You're the person everyone counts on to figure things out.
And I know you're going to get it all done.
But here's what I want to ask you...
Are you as good at taking care of your future YOU as you are at taking care of everything else?
Because being busy, being needed, and getting everything done doesn't necessarily mean you're getting closer to what you actually want.
In Episode 48 of This Wasn't My Plan, I'm talking about the art of simplification, why accomplished women become responsible for everyone else's problems, and how to start making decisions based on the future they actually want.
I'm also sharing why I created The Clarity Lab, a private two-day experience for accomplished women in leadership.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN
- Why being great at solving problems can become your biggest limitation
- How your calendar starts reflecting everyone else's priorities
- Why just because you CAN do something doesn't mean you SHOULD
- The difference between being busy and making progress
- Why simplification can lead to better results
- How clarity determines your direction and behavior determines your results
- Why every decision comes with trade-offs
HERE'S WHAT I WANT YOU TO REMEMBER
Clarity determines your direction.
Your BEHAVIOR determines your results.
You can know exactly what you want, but if you keep making the same decisions, saying yes to the same things, and operating the same way, nothing changes.
Sometimes the answer isn't adding more.
It's removing what's getting in the way.
THREE QUESTIONS FOR YOU
1. What do YOU really want?
2. What are you willing to do to get it?
3. What are you NOT willing to do to get it?
These questions help you define your priorities, commitments, and boundaries.
THE CLARITY LAB
January 28–29, 2027 | Orange County, California
I'm bringing together 25 accomplished women who have spent years building successful careers, businesses, teams, and organizations.
Women who are exceptional at taking care of business but are ready to spend two days focusing on themselves and what comes next.
This isn't a traditional leadership conference.
It's an intentionally small experience to get clear on what you want, decide what you're going to do about it, and identify the behaviors that will get you there.
Applications are personally reviewed.
Learn more and apply:
https://www.rxashlee.com/claritylab
MY QUESTION FOR YOU
You're really good at taking care of business.
But are you making time to take care of your future YOU?
Is the success you're building actually the success you want?
ABOUT ASHLEE
Ashlee Klevens Hayes, PharmD, MHA, is an entrepreneur, leadership strategist, executive advisor, and host of This Wasn't My Plan.
CONNECT WITH ASHLEE
Website: https://www.rxashlee.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleeklevenshayes/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rxashleehayes/
KEYWORDS
Clarity Lab, women in leadership, behavior change, decision-making, simplification, personal growth, executive leadership, women entrepreneurs