Ryan ChaseHostElizabethGuestBrandonGuestMelanieGuestBobGuestKyleGuestFaith
Now, I will say I wish I could have gotten more callers in, but the first three people jammed the lines.
I'd been chatting with this really good-looking guy on Hinge for about 10 days, and the conversation was great.
I was nervous, but he kept reassuring me he's not like other guys, and he really won me over.
We agreed to meet at this cool restaurant downtown, and I was super excited.
I really thought this guy had potential, and he had the sexiest eyes and honestly a voice that just turned me on like no other.
But when I walked in, I saw him sitting down at the table in the bar section And he just waved me over.
I thought to myself, that was kind of rude.
You're not going to at least, like, greet me.
But as I got closer, I realized he was in a wheelchair.
And after a minute or two of small talk, he finally revealed he
was paralyzed from the
waist down.
And he was afraid to tell me.
I tried to play it off as if it was no big deal, but internally I thought, that's not cool.
It's a lie by omission, right? This was last week and I had not messaged him back.
Am I an asshole?

Now, I will say I wish I could have gotten more callers in, but the first three people jammed the lines.
I'd been chatting with this really good-looking guy on Hinge for about 10 days, and the conversation was great.
I was nervous, but he kept reassuring me he's not like other guys, and he really won me over.
We agreed to meet at this cool restaurant downtown, and I was super excited.
I really thought this guy had potential, and he had the sexiest eyes and honestly a voice that just turned me on like no other.
But when I walked in, I saw him sitting down at the table in the bar section And he just waved me over.
I thought to myself, that was kind of rude.
You're not going to at least, like, greet me.
But as I got closer, I realized he was in a wheelchair.
And after a minute or two of small talk, he finally revealed he
was paralyzed from the
waist down.
And he was afraid to tell me.
I tried to play it off as if it was no big deal, but internally I thought, that's not cool.
It's a lie by omission, right? This was last week and I had not messaged him back.
Am I an asshole?
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