Bonus Material Episode 6: Story Time with YOU and Ryan

I was a little resistant in the beginning because she hadn't dated in almost four years because her husband had passed away.

And when we moved in together, I'd see her reading love letters all the time from her husband.

I was competing with a ghost, and I had a couple drinks, and I shredded him.

I threw him away.

You know, I'm sorry.

I know it's painful that you lost him, but we just can't go on with you stuck in the past and not enjoying the present.

Now that was the gist of the call.

When I first heard it, I thought, wow, this is really cruel.

I mean, how dare you? But then I wanted to step back from it and, you know, try and see both sides of it.

I thought what he did is reprehensible.

It's terrible.

You know, she can't get that back.

And they have had to talk about it since the episode was filmed.

I'm going to find out whether or not they stayed together.

Soon.

You know, that's just incredibly insensitive to take that from her.

The flip side is, I get it.

It does feel bad trying to compete with a ghost.

That's a personal pain that I have not gone through and I, you know, I can't imagine what this poor woman is dealing with over the loss of her husband.

He should not have done that, though.

You know, I just keep thinking about that.

That is not your right whatsoever.

Even if you're in a happy relationship and you're both secure in it, you have no right to take that away from her.

We've talked about similar things.

I mean, this is really a big deal because the man is no longer alive.