thing is, is to start like this.
Yes.
So before you really get into the planning or as much as you can, if you're already in the planning and you're finding yourself overwhelmed, stop, take a beat and think about how you're going to take it moving forwards and change the way you're doing it because it can take over you.
It can become your entire personality and nobody wants to be that one person
who all they can talk about is their wedding.
Definitely.
And I think the key thing to think about, first of all, is breaking it down into small chunks.
This helps you with the decision fatigue and the sort of general overwhelm.
But then when you're actually having those, you know, we said about in our previous episode, setting aside a certain time a week to be able to talk about planning.
Once you've set those aside, you know what it is you're achieving in that time.
How can you make those actual moments fun? And I think the first thing first is do something that you enjoy.
So if you enjoy having a glass of wine and a bar of chocolate, then have a glass of wine and a bar of chocolate whilst you're thinking about your musicians or booking a photographer.
On those moments where you have set aside who tackles certain tasks, make it more enjoyable.
Yeah.
thing is, is to start like this.
Yes.
So before you really get into the planning or as much as you can, if you're already in the planning and you're finding yourself overwhelmed, stop, take a beat and think about how you're going to take it moving forwards and change the way you're doing it because it can take over you.
It can become your entire personality and nobody wants to be that one person
who all they can talk about is their wedding.
Definitely.
And I think the key thing to think about, first of all, is breaking it down into small chunks.
This helps you with the decision fatigue and the sort of general overwhelm.
But then when you're actually having those, you know, we said about in our previous episode, setting aside a certain time a week to be able to talk about planning.
Once you've set those aside, you know what it is you're achieving in that time.
How can you make those actual moments fun? And I think the first thing first is do something that you enjoy.
So if you enjoy having a glass of wine and a bar of chocolate, then have a glass of wine and a bar of chocolate whilst you're thinking about your musicians or booking a photographer.
On those moments where you have set aside who tackles certain tasks, make it more enjoyable.
Yeah.
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