Aug 28, 2026 · 7 min · 6 segments
"Hey! Just checking in..." If that's your follow-up message after a sales call, stop sending it today. It feels needy, it adds nothing, and the subtext is just: I want an answer from you. After…
Jason MossHost
Any thoughts? Have you had a quick chance to think about it? Stop sending this message right now.

And the subtext when you send a message like this is nothing more than, I want an answer from you.

So what do you actually send instead? Well, there's a couple approaches I found work so much better.

A couple of weeks ago, I had a sales call with someone who had been running a business for several years and last year things really took a dip.

And as we were having this conversation on the call, it became clear why she was struggling was because the market has shifted.

So we get off this call, it's a couple of days later and I wanted to check in with her.

So what did I do? I went on to chat GPT And I pulled statistics from the Bureau of Labor in the United States on how many people are leaving their jobs and how that's changed over the last few years.

I just saw these statistics I thought you might find really interesting, super relevant to the conversation that we were talking about.

Sending something to someone that is genuinely useful and using that as a way to open back up the doors.

So I love this as a front door, and then when they reply, you can ask something like, hey, side note, how are you feeling about our conversation last week? On the other hand, if you don't have something specific to share that feels relevant for them, there's another approach that I use that works really well, and I call this the gap-focused follow-up.

What you can do is you can bring them back to the gap, and the gap is like the distance between where they are today and where they wanna be.

The gap is so important in sales because when people feel the gap, they feel the tension of resting in the problem or challenge they have.

Any thoughts? Have you had a quick chance to think about it? Stop sending this message right now.

And the subtext when you send a message like this is nothing more than, I want an answer from you.

So what do you actually send instead? Well, there's a couple approaches I found work so much better.

A couple of weeks ago, I had a sales call with someone who had been running a business for several years and last year things really took a dip.

And as we were having this conversation on the call, it became clear why she was struggling was because the market has shifted.

So we get off this call, it's a couple of days later and I wanted to check in with her.

So what did I do? I went on to chat GPT And I pulled statistics from the Bureau of Labor in the United States on how many people are leaving their jobs and how that's changed over the last few years.

I just saw these statistics I thought you might find really interesting, super relevant to the conversation that we were talking about.

Sending something to someone that is genuinely useful and using that as a way to open back up the doors.

So I love this as a front door, and then when they reply, you can ask something like, hey, side note, how are you feeling about our conversation last week? On the other hand, if you don't have something specific to share that feels relevant for them, there's another approach that I use that works really well, and I call this the gap-focused follow-up.

What you can do is you can bring them back to the gap, and the gap is like the distance between where they are today and where they wanna be.

The gap is so important in sales because when people feel the gap, they feel the tension of resting in the problem or challenge they have.
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