Jul 9, 2026 · 33 min · 7 segments
How long will you keep lying to yourself? Is it finally time to interfere with the story you've been telling yourself? Are there certain delusions keeping you bound to that man? In this episode, join…
Chidera EggerueHost
Like, as much as I meet many women who love my podcast, there are still so many women who don't love it, who just can't get behind it.
And I get it because my words are conflicting for you because you wanna believe that men will be better.
You don't want to accept a version of reality where you've spent all that time, you've sacrificed so much, and you've got nothing to show for it.
It's better you face the embarrassment of cutting your losses now and moving on than to face the embarrassment of realizing, oh, he was actually never gonna change.
[sighs] What if I told you that you already look stupid? What if I told you that you trusting and believing this man despite him giving you ample reason to not give him all this time, it's making you look somehow.
It's embarrassing to have trusted a man only for that trust to have been punctured by a completely contradicting choice that he's made.
But I think that when you regroup with yourself and you really ask yourself, like, "What do I actually want out of dating? Why do I still gravitate towards men?" This is where you'll be able to manage those feelings of being in denial, and you can really transmute this whole thing into something way more beneficial for your life.
'Cause look, if I was to turn that question to myself and ask myself, "What is it that I...
Like, what do I like about men? Why do I still see myself having a future with a man despite me not liking men? Like, what's in it for me?" Let me tell you what's in it for me.
Like, as much as I meet many women who love my podcast, there are still so many women who don't love it, who just can't get behind it.
And I get it because my words are conflicting for you because you wanna believe that men will be better.
You don't want to accept a version of reality where you've spent all that time, you've sacrificed so much, and you've got nothing to show for it.
It's better you face the embarrassment of cutting your losses now and moving on than to face the embarrassment of realizing, oh, he was actually never gonna change.
[sighs] What if I told you that you already look stupid? What if I told you that you trusting and believing this man despite him giving you ample reason to not give him all this time, it's making you look somehow.
It's embarrassing to have trusted a man only for that trust to have been punctured by a completely contradicting choice that he's made.
But I think that when you regroup with yourself and you really ask yourself, like, "What do I actually want out of dating? Why do I still gravitate towards men?" This is where you'll be able to manage those feelings of being in denial, and you can really transmute this whole thing into something way more beneficial for your life.
'Cause look, if I was to turn that question to myself and ask myself, "What is it that I...
Like, what do I like about men? Why do I still see myself having a future with a man despite me not liking men? Like, what's in it for me?" Let me tell you what's in it for me.
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