The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
Aug 21, 2026 · 3 min · 5 segments
Falling out of love isn't real, you've simply stopped making deposits into your relationship's treasury. Start investing in small, consistent acts of love and watch your marriage come alive again…
Going back to that Matthew 6:21, where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
And, and the thing is that, that word for treasure is, is thesaurus or where we get our word thesaurus, and it literally means repository.
And so just recognizing that we just put little things...
You know, Kim was talking about being encouraging.
Just little things, just everything we can do.
If I can encourage her a little thing at a time, bring some flowers home without her expecting it, take her out to a nice dinner if she's not expecting it.
You know, just sitting there paying attention to her, looking her in the eyes.
Uh, put something in...
And, and the more we deposit in that treasury box, the more the heart comes alive.
You know, we hear people, I know y'all have heard, uh, you know, people they say they fall out of love.
Nobody falls out of love.
You just quit making deposits-
...
in the repository.
And so you don't, you don't have the, the feelings aren't there.
But if you will make deposits, I guarantee you that love will come back.
And, and especially I would say to the, to the gentlemen out there, um, that's part of what it means to be the leader.
You may not feel like it, but man, if you will start making deposits, I guarantee you you'll, you'll see your wife come alive.
Going back to that Matthew 6:21, where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
And, and the thing is that, that word for treasure is, is thesaurus or where we get our word thesaurus, and it literally means repository.
And so just recognizing that we just put little things...
You know, Kim was talking about being encouraging.
Just little things, just everything we can do.
If I can encourage her a little thing at a time, bring some flowers home without her expecting it, take her out to a nice dinner if she's not expecting it.
You know, just sitting there paying attention to her, looking her in the eyes.
Uh, put something in...
And, and the more we deposit in that treasury box, the more the heart comes alive.
You know, we hear people, I know y'all have heard, uh, you know, people they say they fall out of love.
Nobody falls out of love.
You just quit making deposits-
...
in the repository.
And so you don't, you don't have the, the feelings aren't there.
But if you will make deposits, I guarantee you that love will come back.
And, and especially I would say to the, to the gentlemen out there, um, that's part of what it means to be the leader.
You may not feel like it, but man, if you will start making deposits, I guarantee you you'll, you'll see your wife come alive.
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