Isolation Can Erase Personality
Isolation can change how people see themselves
Mark MathiesonGuest
Ryan SheltonHostJosh van CuylenburgHostHugh van CuylenburgHostUm, what you're, what you're saying there reminds me of a, a friend of mine, um, really good friend who lives in London, um, and has been, I would say, thriving for most of his life, and recently I learnt that he's not doing too well.
And we were talking on the phone, um, and he was describing a few things, and he was...
He went and saw a doctor and was medicated a lot quicker than I would have.
I was so shocked at how quickly they said, "Here's some meds to get rid of that."
But when he was telling me everything that was going on, it felt from an outsider looking in, it's like you've lived in a hectic city for ten years, and you don't really like your job.
It feels pretty obvious what's going on here.
But we're hearing all the things he was doing.
He's like, "I'm tr- doing cold plunging, I'm meditating, I'm, I'm keeping fit, I'm watching what I eat."
"I'm now on these meds, but nothing seems to be working." And it kind of felt like, isn't the...
is, isn't this obvious?

Yeah, and, and, and it is obvious when you have that sort of, you know, um, overarching ability to step back and see, see what's going on-
Mm

... which I think, you know, I've been really fortunate to do in my career, working with a whole bunch of really unique and spec- special people in quotation marks.

You know, the job of a psychologist is to kind of be that- Arbitrator of, well, what's normal?

You know? And so there are many contexts where we sort of accelerate or, or support a way of being in the world-

... you know, living in a s- big city, um, which are, you know, pro- sort of promulgated and, and suggested as, as a good way to, to live.
Um, what you're, what you're saying there reminds me of a, a friend of mine, um, really good friend who lives in London, um, and has been, I would say, thriving for most of his life, and recently I learnt that he's not doing too well.
And we were talking on the phone, um, and he was describing a few things, and he was...
He went and saw a doctor and was medicated a lot quicker than I would have.
I was so shocked at how quickly they said, "Here's some meds to get rid of that."
But when he was telling me everything that was going on, it felt from an outsider looking in, it's like you've lived in a hectic city for ten years, and you don't really like your job.
It feels pretty obvious what's going on here.
But we're hearing all the things he was doing.
He's like, "I'm tr- doing cold plunging, I'm meditating, I'm, I'm keeping fit, I'm watching what I eat."
"I'm now on these meds, but nothing seems to be working." And it kind of felt like, isn't the...
is, isn't this obvious?

Yeah, and, and, and it is obvious when you have that sort of, you know, um, overarching ability to step back and see, see what's going on-
Mm

... which I think, you know, I've been really fortunate to do in my career, working with a whole bunch of really unique and spec- special people in quotation marks.

You know, the job of a psychologist is to kind of be that- Arbitrator of, well, what's normal?

You know? And so there are many contexts where we sort of accelerate or, or support a way of being in the world-

... you know, living in a s- big city, um, which are, you know, pro- sort of promulgated and, and suggested as, as a good way to, to live.
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