The Grit & Grace Podcast with Dr. Lori Doddy
Jun 11, 2026 · 16 min · 10 segments
Lately I've been thinking a lot about the way people speak to each other online. Not just trolls and "haters." But ordinary people saying things behind screens that they would likely never say…
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People criticizing her for her parenting, her decision to move, for criticizing the way they're making decisions about their kids, just in a whole host of other things that she shared, just deeply personal attacks that she was getting from strangers.

And I was sitting there watching her and feeling like this kind of odd mix of emotions.

There was part of me to be quite frank about it, that felt protective, like big sister, maybe aunt, quite a bit older than her.

But there was a part of me that was like, okay, you know, what time do we ride, sister? Like, where are they? Because that's my nature, protective nature.

And there was a part of me that thought too, because this is not the first time that I've seen another creator talk about this, but it makes me more and more it makes me wonder like what is happening to us that this type of like attack kind of behavior troll behavior whatever you want to call it what's happening that that has become kind of normal behavior in many ways I'm seeing it more and more and more and then literally right after like within 30 minutes of seeing her talk about it online and clearly she was on some level upset about it.

I had another interaction in my own inbox that made me stop and think about this whole thing on an even deeper level.

People criticizing her for her parenting, her decision to move, for criticizing the way they're making decisions about their kids, just in a whole host of other things that she shared, just deeply personal attacks that she was getting from strangers.

And I was sitting there watching her and feeling like this kind of odd mix of emotions.

There was part of me to be quite frank about it, that felt protective, like big sister, maybe aunt, quite a bit older than her.

But there was a part of me that was like, okay, you know, what time do we ride, sister? Like, where are they? Because that's my nature, protective nature.

And there was a part of me that thought too, because this is not the first time that I've seen another creator talk about this, but it makes me more and more it makes me wonder like what is happening to us that this type of like attack kind of behavior troll behavior whatever you want to call it what's happening that that has become kind of normal behavior in many ways I'm seeing it more and more and more and then literally right after like within 30 minutes of seeing her talk about it online and clearly she was on some level upset about it.

I had another interaction in my own inbox that made me stop and think about this whole thing on an even deeper level.
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