Perfection Always Ends In Nothing
Perfection can turn one mistake into defeat
Yeah, and I think it's a very common issue, a very common mistake, and I would almost say it's a rookie mistake to think that, "Oh, I need to do all the things all at once because I did them before." People who have been successful in being in the rhythm of their fasting and their eating and their movement remember what it was like to have all of those levers pulled full throttle, and so they just wanna get back in the game, pull them all full throttle again, and that's not how it works.
Whether you're a beginner or whether you're experienced, we need to gradually increase how involved we are with each of those areas.
So if we've found ourselves turning our dials off, [laughs] turning our levels down to zero, and we wanna crank 'em all up again, we don't do that in one fell swoop.
So we need to, one by one, prioritize which one we're gonna attack first, get that going, get that established before we move on to the next one.
And I think the reason that people don't do it that way and wanna go full throttle is they have this unrealistic expectation about weight-loss pace.
You know, the scale has done 'em dirty a little bit over the summer, and they think, "Oh my gosh, I gotta get this all back off, and I wanna get to whatever weight by the holidays, and those pictures, and all those things." And so they feel the need to full throttle and get there as fast as possible.
You know, the weight-loss pace is gonna be slow and steady if it's gonna happen.
Heather, you just highlighted something that I've been thinking about a lot over the last couple of months, and, at some point, maybe you and I can have a more in-depth conversation about this.
But I also heard, as you were just describing that, where I think so many of us struggle, is that really is, in my mind, a manifestation of diet mentality.
Be miserable, but only have to do that for a short time, maybe a couple of months, and then let your foot off the gas and do whatever you want.
So many of us are in this pattern of push to the extreme, back off and slip and slide, push to the extreme, back off and slip and slide.
And what you're really describing is creating a more gentle, rolling, rebuilding process.
Never get to the point where it's completely off so that you never get to the place where it's full throttle, no holds barred kind of mentality, because that is where we burn out, and that's why this process feels miserable.
Yeah, and I think it's a very common issue, a very common mistake, and I would almost say it's a rookie mistake to think that, "Oh, I need to do all the things all at once because I did them before." People who have been successful in being in the rhythm of their fasting and their eating and their movement remember what it was like to have all of those levers pulled full throttle, and so they just wanna get back in the game, pull them all full throttle again, and that's not how it works.
Whether you're a beginner or whether you're experienced, we need to gradually increase how involved we are with each of those areas.
So if we've found ourselves turning our dials off, [laughs] turning our levels down to zero, and we wanna crank 'em all up again, we don't do that in one fell swoop.
So we need to, one by one, prioritize which one we're gonna attack first, get that going, get that established before we move on to the next one.
And I think the reason that people don't do it that way and wanna go full throttle is they have this unrealistic expectation about weight-loss pace.
You know, the scale has done 'em dirty a little bit over the summer, and they think, "Oh my gosh, I gotta get this all back off, and I wanna get to whatever weight by the holidays, and those pictures, and all those things." And so they feel the need to full throttle and get there as fast as possible.
You know, the weight-loss pace is gonna be slow and steady if it's gonna happen.
Heather, you just highlighted something that I've been thinking about a lot over the last couple of months, and, at some point, maybe you and I can have a more in-depth conversation about this.
But I also heard, as you were just describing that, where I think so many of us struggle, is that really is, in my mind, a manifestation of diet mentality.
Be miserable, but only have to do that for a short time, maybe a couple of months, and then let your foot off the gas and do whatever you want.
So many of us are in this pattern of push to the extreme, back off and slip and slide, push to the extreme, back off and slip and slide.
And what you're really describing is creating a more gentle, rolling, rebuilding process.
Never get to the point where it's completely off so that you never get to the place where it's full throttle, no holds barred kind of mentality, because that is where we burn out, and that's why this process feels miserable.
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Perfection Always Ends In Nothing
Perfection can turn one mistake into defeat
Why Resets Can Backfire
A reset can make losing control worse
Weight Loss Is Identity Change
Keeping weight off requires an identity shift
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