The Fascinating Womanhood Podcast - The Feminine Revolution
Jul 17, 2026 · 50 min · 12 segments
Send us Fan Mail **Why does it always feel like you're the one doing the work in your relationship?** If you've ever thought, *"Why do I have to be…
Cherry LynnHostDixie Andelin ForsytheHost
So today we are talking about why should women do it all? This has to do with the weight, I guess you could say, that women maybe perhaps are feeling that they have to carry to make their relationship not only happy, but balanced and loving.
Why should I be the one who has to change? Why do I feel like I carry so much of the relationship? Why does it seem like I care more than he does?
In talking about this, I think one of the things that needs to come out is that this is our perception.
But a lot of times when we feel like we have to do it all, we're sometimes discounting what they do or taking it for granted.
I know for me, when I've been gone, which isn't that often, and I come back, and I'll say to Bob, is the house tidy? He says, yeah, it looks great.
And he hasn't done this or he hasn't done that, but he says, I don't see anything.
So it might seem like I care more than he does, but he has a little bit different tolerance for standards than I do.
So if I want it the way I want it, I've learned I just have to put it the way I want it.
Well, what's interesting about what you just shared is that you, and I think every woman can probably pick a category that they relate to with this topic.
So today we are talking about why should women do it all? This has to do with the weight, I guess you could say, that women maybe perhaps are feeling that they have to carry to make their relationship not only happy, but balanced and loving.
Why should I be the one who has to change? Why do I feel like I carry so much of the relationship? Why does it seem like I care more than he does?
In talking about this, I think one of the things that needs to come out is that this is our perception.
But a lot of times when we feel like we have to do it all, we're sometimes discounting what they do or taking it for granted.
I know for me, when I've been gone, which isn't that often, and I come back, and I'll say to Bob, is the house tidy? He says, yeah, it looks great.
And he hasn't done this or he hasn't done that, but he says, I don't see anything.
So it might seem like I care more than he does, but he has a little bit different tolerance for standards than I do.
So if I want it the way I want it, I've learned I just have to put it the way I want it.
Well, what's interesting about what you just shared is that you, and I think every woman can probably pick a category that they relate to with this topic.
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