Why Boundaries Feel SO HARD?

Boundaries are extremely important in any relationship, including our relationship with our neighbors and our even our laws and our land have to do with boundaries.

You know, people being able to break and enter your house.

I mean, these are all types of boundaries.

And boundaries in personal relationship can get really out of hand if we just let people step on us or if we step on other people

and

just try to justify it.

It can destroy relationships or it can help them to feel secure.

I like what you said about we have to have them in our laws and we have to have them.

It's really necessary every single day.

And I don't think about it as much as we probably should or could.

And they're really important in families.

They're important in dating relationships.

They're extremely important.

And we see them trampled on and justified all the time.

So that's why we're talking about.

Yeah, and we get so many questions about this.

And every time, I don't know about you, but every time I've had a coaching conversation, because we do coaching,

every

time I've had a student that I'm coaching, the boundary thing always comes up

and

it becomes a almost a center of the topic, whether it be a woman dealing with infidelity, whether it be dealing with dating, whether it be dealing with like just losing the spark in her relationship, the boundary thing always comes

up.

And some women, they kind of act like they can justify getting their husband to do something they want, saying, I'm setting a boundary.

So it's like saying, my boundary is I've told him he's not allowed to do this, he's not allowed to do that.

And if she calls it by the right word, which is boundary, it's justified.