What Women Get Wrong About Self Esteem

Yeah, sometimes it's

several things.

You know, one of the things I observe, you can jump in and tell me what you observe about women and self-esteem around you.

One of the things I observe is this kind of like, it's kind of cool to be a hot mess.

You know what I'm saying? Like there's like the hot mess mom trend that goes around on social media.

It's kind of, it's almost like we're proud.

We're wearing our self-esteem issues as a badge of honor.

So that we can fit in with that bigger crowd of hot messes.

Well, and I don't mean that in a critical way.

I'm not trying to criticize moms.

I think I'm more just saying it as something that I've observed and I'm kind of confused by it.

Why are we proud of being kind of messy and being kind of a mess, I guess, in a way? Some women are not, of course.

This isn't everybody, but I'm noticing this a lot around me.

Well, maybe it's partly being overwhelmed and not knowing what else to do.

Yeah.

Kind of giving up sort of action.

Yeah.

Like I don't

have

time for myself and that's kind of funny.

I love the humor in life and I think it's great to have humor, but I think this crosses a boundary for some of us.

Some of us, it's just a day.

Oh boy, I'm a mess today because this is a bad day.

And I think that's more along the sides of funny humor.

But when it's a habit that you're always kind of just a mess and you never really...