Aug 24, 2026 · 39 min · 10 segments
Cappy talks a guy down from the "red pill rage" edge and explains a life worrying about what women want and why don't they like men is not worth living. Accept and move on. Accept and have peace…
Aaron ClareyHost
It probably matches some of the-- or is relevant to some of the younger kids, younger kids, young men, young adults out there, and we'll, we'll go over it again.

Um, it feels a lot like church and, and I don't-- I am not criticizing any human.

But it, it-- there's an element of I wish the wolves would stop howling at the moon.

And I, I wish men would stop lessening their lives agonizing over women, accurately assess, diagnose, uh, women's interest in them, realize, oh, and then listen to-- [laughs] You don't have to listen to me.

Are they knocking at your door? And I don't mean that as a criticism like, oh, are, are you quality? Are you...

No, no, look, look, it-- I've seen the, the, the era of it's the man's fault is over.

Are you fat? Are you short, which you don't control? Do you-- We are aware of that.

But the worst thing you can do is let something outside your control affect and lessen your life.

No matter how much your genetics are programming you to howl at the moon, men should be smarter than dogs, right? We should be smarter than wolves, the unevolved dog.

You know, you have very esoteric intelligent dogs like corgis and dachshunds and whatever the dog was on Frasier.

Stop howling at the moon and go be an industrious wolf, or go be a relaxed wolf, or go be a Schopenhauer wolf, or go be an adventuring wolf.

Um, li-life is too short to let this, albeit hardwired number one genetic thing, ruin it for you.
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