Play Instead of Power Struggles
Try replacing power struggles with playful connection
Sep 23, 2026 · 25 min · 15 segments
"Most parents know that play is important. But what if it's not the game that matters most—it's how you show up while you're playing? In this episode of The Child Psych Podcast, child psychologists…
Tammy SchamuhnHostTanya JohnsonHost
Once we give you just a couple skills to do this, I think what's hard is parents get really self-conscious about making certain voices.

What is the thing supposed to say? A lot of parents maybe didn't play a lot when they were younger for a variety of reasons, or they just don't remember that they're kind of removed from that childlike part of themselves.

But we know play, and we've done so many different podcasts that have discussed this, is how kids process their feelings and how they develop competence.

And then of course the, all the different positive outcomes in terms of competencies that they get from, from playing.

It just feels awkward is what I hear different parents say when kids, because kids say like, well, you play with me.

Once we give you just a couple skills to do this, I think what's hard is parents get really self-conscious about making certain voices.

What is the thing supposed to say? A lot of parents maybe didn't play a lot when they were younger for a variety of reasons, or they just don't remember that they're kind of removed from that childlike part of themselves.

But we know play, and we've done so many different podcasts that have discussed this, is how kids process their feelings and how they develop competence.

And then of course the, all the different positive outcomes in terms of competencies that they get from, from playing.

It just feels awkward is what I hear different parents say when kids, because kids say like, well, you play with me.
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Play Instead of Power Struggles
Try replacing power struggles with playful connection
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Children reveal their inner world through play
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Let children lead to make play easier
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