Love is Blind UK (S3) - (Ep5/6) "Ciara, what was the reason!?"
Sep 3, 2026 · 24 min · 9 segments
Unpacking the latest episodes of "Love is Blind UK" on Netflix!
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Sep 3, 2026 · 24 min · 9 segments
Unpacking the latest episodes of "Love is Blind UK" on Netflix!
Let's get into episode five.
and six okay look so i know it's been a minute but um i literally haven't watched the weddings i think i stopped episode nine like at the very beginning because i just like i wasn't ready for it like i have my predictions and a lot of stuff but i just wasn't ready to like view it started watching maths us episode dropping soon um so yeah i've taken a bit of a break i'm coming back to it now obviously at this point i do know who like got married but let's maintain the illusion babes um i'm still gonna watch the episodes and stuff but let's maintain the illusion so five and six meaty very meaty uh first of all kiera and jack um oh i i keep coming back to the same thing with jack where i feel like he uses adhd diagnosis in a way of like weaponized incompetence you know what i mean he does and says things that affect others or like you give others an impression and then he's totally like blind to it you know afterward he's like where did you get that from babe what do you what the fuck do you mean what the fuck do you mean you know exactly we got it came out of your mouth but anyway okay cool my first thought is that yeah he's very offended but absolutely no introspection or self-awareness or self-reflection of how she might have come to that conclusion when all of us watching it's very obvious to why she feels like he's disingenuous and he's someone to watch out for like red flags throughout you know and i saw a lot of guys being like jack is misunderstood no i'm gonna be bitter about being a neurodivergent woman now okay Men always get this benefit of the doubt about being misunderstood.
Oh, he's got ADHD.
And a lot of the time when women are complaining about men not putting their weight in the house, you know, everyone's first comment is like, does he have ADHD? Fuck you.
Because when a woman is that person, no one is wondering if she has postpartum, if she has ADHD, whatever.
They're just like, oh, she's a bad partner.
You know, so it really triggers me.
It's triggering the word.
It just really upsets me that men get so much kind of benefit of the doubt when like as a neurodivergent woman, you get the very opposite of it as a black neurodivergent woman as well.
Even worse.
People always assume the worst of you before they assume the best.
You know, people come to you with preconceived notions.
People assume you're one way because you're not performing how they expect.
But neurodivergent men do not have this problem.
And it's just, oh, oh.
Anyway, Karen Jackson, let's get back to it.
He basically admitted that he did say that.
And the footage basically showed that he did say that.
And it's interesting to me that, like, when Kiera's saying, like, you know, okay, whatever, we can feel how we feel.
But my main beef is that AJ, this could have gone another way because he believed what you said.
He's kind of indignant.
He's, like, he's not believing of that.
He's not receiving that feedback.
Let's get into episode five.
and six okay look so i know it's been a minute but um i literally haven't watched the weddings i think i stopped episode nine like at the very beginning because i just like i wasn't ready for it like i have my predictions and a lot of stuff but i just wasn't ready to like view it started watching maths us episode dropping soon um so yeah i've taken a bit of a break i'm coming back to it now obviously at this point i do know who like got married but let's maintain the illusion babes um i'm still gonna watch the episodes and stuff but let's maintain the illusion so five and six meaty very meaty uh first of all kiera and jack um oh i i keep coming back to the same thing with jack where i feel like he uses adhd diagnosis in a way of like weaponized incompetence you know what i mean he does and says things that affect others or like you give others an impression and then he's totally like blind to it you know afterward he's like where did you get that from babe what do you what the fuck do you mean what the fuck do you mean you know exactly we got it came out of your mouth but anyway okay cool my first thought is that yeah he's very offended but absolutely no introspection or self-awareness or self-reflection of how she might have come to that conclusion when all of us watching it's very obvious to why she feels like he's disingenuous and he's someone to watch out for like red flags throughout you know and i saw a lot of guys being like jack is misunderstood no i'm gonna be bitter about being a neurodivergent woman now okay Men always get this benefit of the doubt about being misunderstood.
Oh, he's got ADHD.
And a lot of the time when women are complaining about men not putting their weight in the house, you know, everyone's first comment is like, does he have ADHD? Fuck you.
Because when a woman is that person, no one is wondering if she has postpartum, if she has ADHD, whatever.
They're just like, oh, she's a bad partner.
You know, so it really triggers me.
It's triggering the word.
It just really upsets me that men get so much kind of benefit of the doubt when like as a neurodivergent woman, you get the very opposite of it as a black neurodivergent woman as well.
Even worse.
People always assume the worst of you before they assume the best.
You know, people come to you with preconceived notions.
People assume you're one way because you're not performing how they expect.
But neurodivergent men do not have this problem.
And it's just, oh, oh.
Anyway, Karen Jackson, let's get back to it.
He basically admitted that he did say that.
And the footage basically showed that he did say that.
And it's interesting to me that, like, when Kiera's saying, like, you know, okay, whatever, we can feel how we feel.
But my main beef is that AJ, this could have gone another way because he believed what you said.
He's kind of indignant.
He's, like, he's not believing of that.
He's not receiving that feedback.
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