Aug 20, 2026 · 20 min · 9 segments
Unpacking the latest episodes of "Love is Blind UK" on Netflix!
Okay, um... oh so my main thoughts for episode three and four are to do with jack they're to do with jack you know for the she swan he frog category i'm kind of picking jack and faye i really am like um you know my first thing with jack and i can't remember if i mentioned this in the previous episode is that like Not his fault, but he's following this trope of, like, reality TV men leading with their neurodivergent diagnosis that they're ADHD or they're autistic.
And, I mean, you know what? Men do this in real life as well.
You know what I mean? They lead with their diagnosis as kind of, like, an excuse for anything they have going on or an excuse for any way they might fall short.
And I'm not saying that Jack is necessarily doing that, but I think he is kind of falling into that trap in some situations.
You know, like, I...
I understand why he wants to talk to, I wanted to call her Sierra, Kiera.
But at the same time, I think he really doesn't have a leg to stand on there.
You know what I mean? He's talking about she's planting seeds and all that stuff, you know, by going back and talking to Faye.
And I can see from his point of view why he thinks that.
But it's like, stop and consider what you have done to make it so easy for those seeds to be planted.
You know, if you had not behaved a certain way, acted a certain way, it would be very easy to disregard what other people say about you.
But you have done things that leave a gray area, that are questionable.
And that is the real issue, not whatever anybody else has to say about you, is that you act in a way... where we have to kind of consider those options we have to be like you know what i can see where she's coming from and i can see where she's coming from i really can see like as a neurodivergent person myself as someone who was diagnosed late in life in their late 20s because for women and especially women of color coming by a neurodivergent diagnosis is very hard it's very very hard and there's like so many studies on the hows and the whys and um yeah I get irked because as a neurodivergent woman, you're not afforded as much grace as neurodivergent men are.
You know what I mean? Like, now that Jack has said he's ADHD, you know, people will be like, oh, you know, like, that's why he does X, or that's why he does Z.
Like, we need to give him some grace.
And I mean, yeah, definitely.
There are things he can't help because of his ADHD.
Like, his impulsivity.
Or, you know, his, he really articulated a lot, like, his struggle with words.
Like, he feels like he says a lot, but not anything really at all because he struggles.
And I totally relate to that struggle.
You know what I mean? And so there are parts of Jack, like that's why he's been in a gray area for me.
I do get some of him and I do want to give him the benefit of the doubt.
But at the same time, like you can't be telling every girl you love them.
I understand it could be tongue in cheek.
Okay, um... oh so my main thoughts for episode three and four are to do with jack they're to do with jack you know for the she swan he frog category i'm kind of picking jack and faye i really am like um you know my first thing with jack and i can't remember if i mentioned this in the previous episode is that like Not his fault, but he's following this trope of, like, reality TV men leading with their neurodivergent diagnosis that they're ADHD or they're autistic.
And, I mean, you know what? Men do this in real life as well.
You know what I mean? They lead with their diagnosis as kind of, like, an excuse for anything they have going on or an excuse for any way they might fall short.
And I'm not saying that Jack is necessarily doing that, but I think he is kind of falling into that trap in some situations.
You know, like, I...
I understand why he wants to talk to, I wanted to call her Sierra, Kiera.
But at the same time, I think he really doesn't have a leg to stand on there.
You know what I mean? He's talking about she's planting seeds and all that stuff, you know, by going back and talking to Faye.
And I can see from his point of view why he thinks that.
But it's like, stop and consider what you have done to make it so easy for those seeds to be planted.
You know, if you had not behaved a certain way, acted a certain way, it would be very easy to disregard what other people say about you.
But you have done things that leave a gray area, that are questionable.
And that is the real issue, not whatever anybody else has to say about you, is that you act in a way... where we have to kind of consider those options we have to be like you know what i can see where she's coming from and i can see where she's coming from i really can see like as a neurodivergent person myself as someone who was diagnosed late in life in their late 20s because for women and especially women of color coming by a neurodivergent diagnosis is very hard it's very very hard and there's like so many studies on the hows and the whys and um yeah I get irked because as a neurodivergent woman, you're not afforded as much grace as neurodivergent men are.
You know what I mean? Like, now that Jack has said he's ADHD, you know, people will be like, oh, you know, like, that's why he does X, or that's why he does Z.
Like, we need to give him some grace.
And I mean, yeah, definitely.
There are things he can't help because of his ADHD.
Like, his impulsivity.
Or, you know, his, he really articulated a lot, like, his struggle with words.
Like, he feels like he says a lot, but not anything really at all because he struggles.
And I totally relate to that struggle.
You know what I mean? And so there are parts of Jack, like that's why he's been in a gray area for me.
I do get some of him and I do want to give him the benefit of the doubt.
But at the same time, like you can't be telling every girl you love them.
I understand it could be tongue in cheek.
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