#183: Most Men Kill Attraction In The First 30 Seconds (Do This Instead)

Now, number two is your intent.

You want to communicate that you're talking to her because you're genuinely interested in her.

Nothing more, nothing less.

Just be direct.

Don't beat around the bush.

So many guys beat around the bush and then they get nowhere.

Now, number three is your pace.

This is the biggest one.

Men who talk too fast are gonna appear insecure.

You gotta talk with a comfortable pace that feels natural.

You gotta talk at your own rhythm.

And always smirk, always have a smile.

Now the secret is you wanna talk like you have nothing to prove.

You're already valuable, you're already a high value man, so you don't need to prove yourself or prove your achievements.

Let her find out about you and just feel comfortable talking like you're a million bucks.

Approach her like you mean it.

Approach her like you have value.

Approach like you're giving her a million bucks.

And let her see the value.

And if she doesn't see the value, then just go and approach a different girl.

That's totally fine.

You're not going to be compatible with everybody.

Effective communication is not about getting along with everybody.

It's about alienating the wrong people and delighting the right people.