The 0.01% Show with Limo Oueslati
Aug 24, 2026 · 18 min · 8 segments
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Limo OueslatiHost
And if your brain learns that effort equals pain, it's going to avoid effort forever.
You see, a few weeks ago, I was in a villa in Thailand with a couple of friends.
And Chris is the type of guy who... instantly like he doesn't even think instantly when he sees a girl he just approaches like it's just a reflex at this point and it's a bit like me now i mean i've developed the skill set as well where whenever i see a girl i try to approach like 90 of the time i'm gonna go if i really like a girl well same thing for him but him is actually even more than me like he talks to anyone not even just girls even guys like he sees a guy or something he says hi to every he just says hi to everybody and He's not some loud extrovert, actually.
But the moment he sees an attractive girl or the moment he sees someone he wants to approach, he just goes.
I asked him once, like, when did you become like this? Like, what made you change and become this type of guy who just approaches anyone? And he told me three things, right? And these three things really clicked for me because, I mean, obviously I learned these things a long time ago, but he reminded me these concepts, right? And the first one is he operates from the belief that everybody wants to be his friend.
He operates from the belief that the world is just a big family and that there's no reason to not approach anybody because anybody wants to be social.
He doesn't have the belief that if he approaches, he's going to bother them or he's going to maybe waste their time or whatever, or he's going to be annoying.
He has the belief that his presence is a gift and that by approaching women, he's making their day better.
When you're approaching a woman, you're literally giving them a gift of your presence.
And if you do the approach correctly, you're basically making their day better.
And most importantly, and this is one of the main things that I want to share with you in this video, is that he celebrates every input.
He doesn't celebrate the outputs only because most guys, they celebrate only when they get a date or a number or sex or whatever, but he celebrates the action of it.
And if your brain learns that effort equals pain, it's going to avoid effort forever.
You see, a few weeks ago, I was in a villa in Thailand with a couple of friends.
And Chris is the type of guy who... instantly like he doesn't even think instantly when he sees a girl he just approaches like it's just a reflex at this point and it's a bit like me now i mean i've developed the skill set as well where whenever i see a girl i try to approach like 90 of the time i'm gonna go if i really like a girl well same thing for him but him is actually even more than me like he talks to anyone not even just girls even guys like he sees a guy or something he says hi to every he just says hi to everybody and He's not some loud extrovert, actually.
But the moment he sees an attractive girl or the moment he sees someone he wants to approach, he just goes.
I asked him once, like, when did you become like this? Like, what made you change and become this type of guy who just approaches anyone? And he told me three things, right? And these three things really clicked for me because, I mean, obviously I learned these things a long time ago, but he reminded me these concepts, right? And the first one is he operates from the belief that everybody wants to be his friend.
He operates from the belief that the world is just a big family and that there's no reason to not approach anybody because anybody wants to be social.
He doesn't have the belief that if he approaches, he's going to bother them or he's going to maybe waste their time or whatever, or he's going to be annoying.
He has the belief that his presence is a gift and that by approaching women, he's making their day better.
When you're approaching a woman, you're literally giving them a gift of your presence.
And if you do the approach correctly, you're basically making their day better.
And most importantly, and this is one of the main things that I want to share with you in this video, is that he celebrates every input.
He doesn't celebrate the outputs only because most guys, they celebrate only when they get a date or a number or sex or whatever, but he celebrates the action of it.
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