The 0.01% Show with Limo Oueslati
Aug 3, 2026 · 7 min · 7 segments
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Limo OueslatiHost
You know, I have so many people in my DMs every day asking me, like, "How do you actually get dates consistently? What are the actions that lead to that? How can I just get the same lifestyle as you, like travel the world, you know, approach women, get dates, have the freedom, et cetera?" And it actually all starts with your identity, because if you don't have a vision for your life, then you're gonna buy into someone else's vision, or you're just gonna be like a leaf in the wind.
You're gonna do what your friends do, or you're gonna do what your family wants you to do.
So number one, it starts with that identity that you're the master of your own life.
No matter how low your life is now, even if you're broke, you don't have any girls, you're fat, whatever, you can decide right now to change.
You need to cut the things that are keeping you down, like the bad habits, loser friends, the things that, that consume your time for no reason, like video games, smoking weed, all of that.
You need to just cut that shit, and then you need to be 100% focused on turning your, uh, life around with the right habits.
It all starts with your habits, because you choose your habits, but then your habits are gonna shape your identity, so it starts with the right habits.
Going to the gym three, four times a week, doing a bit of martial arts, reading books, constantly learning, constantly putting yourself in social situations or uncomfortable situations.
All these type of things are gonna nourish your identity, because at the end of the day, every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wanna become.
And we all have neuroplasticity, which means, like, our brain and our identity is shapeable.
You can always change your identity based on what you decide and the actions you take that are gonna justify that identity.
For example, if you consistently approach women, then you're gonna take the identity of someone who approaches women consistently.
It's gonna be embedded in you, because over time, that's gonna shape who you are.
If you don't approach women, and you're constantly making excuses around that, then you're gonna shape the identity of someone who makes ex- excuses, someone who delays things or procrastinates on that.
So it's very important to be aware of the actions you take weekly, because you're the culmination of the, all the actions you take.
Shaping the right vision, having the right actions that justify that identity and that vision.
You know, I have so many people in my DMs every day asking me, like, "How do you actually get dates consistently? What are the actions that lead to that? How can I just get the same lifestyle as you, like travel the world, you know, approach women, get dates, have the freedom, et cetera?" And it actually all starts with your identity, because if you don't have a vision for your life, then you're gonna buy into someone else's vision, or you're just gonna be like a leaf in the wind.
You're gonna do what your friends do, or you're gonna do what your family wants you to do.
So number one, it starts with that identity that you're the master of your own life.
No matter how low your life is now, even if you're broke, you don't have any girls, you're fat, whatever, you can decide right now to change.
You need to cut the things that are keeping you down, like the bad habits, loser friends, the things that, that consume your time for no reason, like video games, smoking weed, all of that.
You need to just cut that shit, and then you need to be 100% focused on turning your, uh, life around with the right habits.
It all starts with your habits, because you choose your habits, but then your habits are gonna shape your identity, so it starts with the right habits.
Going to the gym three, four times a week, doing a bit of martial arts, reading books, constantly learning, constantly putting yourself in social situations or uncomfortable situations.
All these type of things are gonna nourish your identity, because at the end of the day, every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wanna become.
And we all have neuroplasticity, which means, like, our brain and our identity is shapeable.
You can always change your identity based on what you decide and the actions you take that are gonna justify that identity.
For example, if you consistently approach women, then you're gonna take the identity of someone who approaches women consistently.
It's gonna be embedded in you, because over time, that's gonna shape who you are.
If you don't approach women, and you're constantly making excuses around that, then you're gonna shape the identity of someone who makes ex- excuses, someone who delays things or procrastinates on that.
So it's very important to be aware of the actions you take weekly, because you're the culmination of the, all the actions you take.
Shaping the right vision, having the right actions that justify that identity and that vision.
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