How Do You Tell the Difference Between Someone Who Is Righteously Offended by Homosexuality and a Bully?

Questions about how to tell the difference between someone who is righteously offended by homosexuality and a bully, and how to challenge cultural Christians to think more deeply about the Christian worldview when they complain about men wearing women’s dresses in public.   - How do you tell the difference between someone who is righteously offended by homosexuality and a bully? - How can I challenge my cultural-Christian friends to think more deeply about the Christian worldview when they complain about people dressing in bizarre ways in public (like men in women’s dresses)?