Jun 8, 2026 · 17 min · 8 segments
In this thought-provoking episode of SkillCast, host Nurbanu sits down with clinical psychologist, psychotherapist, and relationship expert Natalia Kobilkina to discuss self-worth, feminine energy…
Natalia KobilkinaGuestNurbanu SomaniHostso how do you be vulnerable, how do you allow men to take care of you and just feel safe? What's the first step that someone needs to take?

I saw, I've been here at a dating party, and I saw one lady which looking for men, I am matchmaker and also I go to dating parties to help people to match.

And when I saw her, She said, what will you bring on the table? I want strong men, I want this, I want this.

Why can he change me so easily? She's very afraid how you say correct, she doesn't feel safe.

Because a lot of them never have good example between mother and father how they love each other.

Our father's not was perfect, but we're sure they did some compromise to stay in this relationship.
It's completely true because there's so much free will and so much free power.
It's very different.
In those days, there wasn't so much social media.
There wasn't these influences before.
But now with all of these influences, it becomes so much more difficult to be able to compromise.
This is all about being quite selfish in a way.
But at the same time, it's about also being open and to sharing that platform with someone else.
What's the first steps a woman needs to take to kind of get back into a
so how do you be vulnerable, how do you allow men to take care of you and just feel safe? What's the first step that someone needs to take?

I saw, I've been here at a dating party, and I saw one lady which looking for men, I am matchmaker and also I go to dating parties to help people to match.

And when I saw her, She said, what will you bring on the table? I want strong men, I want this, I want this.

Why can he change me so easily? She's very afraid how you say correct, she doesn't feel safe.

Because a lot of them never have good example between mother and father how they love each other.

Our father's not was perfect, but we're sure they did some compromise to stay in this relationship.
It's completely true because there's so much free will and so much free power.
It's very different.
In those days, there wasn't so much social media.
There wasn't these influences before.
But now with all of these influences, it becomes so much more difficult to be able to compromise.
This is all about being quite selfish in a way.
But at the same time, it's about also being open and to sharing that platform with someone else.
What's the first steps a woman needs to take to kind of get back into a
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