You keep waiting to "feel like it," and the feeling never comes, so you tell yourself the answer is no. Girl, you are not the problem. You have just been waiting for the wrong thing to arrive first.
For most women in midlife, desire doesn't show up before you act; it responds after your body is already warm. Arousal leads, wanting follows. This Friday Edition breaks down the science, including the study that went looking for the best lovers on earth and found them long-married and past sixty, and a 2024 study on the tiny daily cues that quietly build desire.
You'll get a 3-minute solo practice you do mid-afternoon, and a couples' "runway" for the weekend that turns "we should" into "I can't wait."
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What if the reason you've gone from feeling young, passionate, and desirable to feeling disconnected, broken, and like you're living with a roommate instead of a husband…has nothing to do with your age or your hormones?
What if it comes down to a hidden cycle no one talks about - one that keeps women after 50 stuck, waiting for a desire that never seems to return?
That's exactly why I created **The Desire Reset Guide**.
It's for women after 50, and it reveals the real reason you feel broken - plus 3 simple practices you do over 3 days to finally reconnect with your pleasure, your desire, and your partner. 👉 juliemerrimanphd.com/desire
Have you quietly wondered if you're broken…you're not. The science says so. Listen to Episode 29: Your Body Isn't Broken, The Truth About Desire After 50.
New episodes Wednesdays & Fridays, 5am CST
This podcast is for women after 50 navigating low desire, sexual disconnection, and body changes who want nervous-system-informed insight into libido, aliveness, intimacy, and embodied pleasure so they can move from tamed to alive and unapologetically hungry.
**No part of this content may be used for AI or machine learning training.**
