What helps kids stay curious, motivated, and connected to who they really are?
In this episode, I’m talking with educational psychologist, professor, researcher, and longtime unschooling parent **Dr. Gina Riley** about intrinsic motivation and Self-Determination Theory — a framework that has shaped both her academic work and the way she raised her own son.
We talk about:
- The three things that support intrinsic motivation: **competence, autonomy, and relatedness**
- Why freedom and choice matter so much in learning
- What it looks like to let children develop interests that *we* might not have chosen for them
- How unschooling supported Gina’s son in becoming his own person
- Why knowing your values can make parenting decisions feel much clearer
- The importance of protecting curiosity, joy, and the precious time we have with our kids
### Go Deeper
Explore Self-Determination Theory: https://selfdeterminationtheory.org/
Learn more about Dr. Gina Riley: https://ginarileyphd.com/
✨ **Grab the free Self-Schooled Parent Toolkit:** https://www.self-schooled.com