Self Improvement, Mindfulness and Mental Health Tips - The Coached Soul Podcast
Aug 21, 2026 · 29 min · 10 segments
What if some of life's hardest experiences are actually part of the curriculum? In this episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins and Kenya Evelyn explore the idea of the "University of Hard…
Steve HudginsHost
Kenya EvelynHost
And I have three kids, which I call them kids because they're mine, but they're giants.

16 14 and an 11 year old girl and i am i'm in the business of leading with leadership right and what i notice is i've always loved to learn that's what i tell them the academics felt like imposed learning you have to learn this and this is the right way to learn this is the right way that you hold a pen This is the right way.

And I want to say that to our dear listeners, because if you had a parent academic or if you don't have a parent academic, there is this invitation to you just got to do what you got to do.

And I know that that's the direction we want to go in this podcast is not as much as, hey, tell me your GPA.

You know, I remember reading a book that was labeled University of Hard Knocks.

Sometimes I wonder if the mind doesn't work, do we still learn? It's just where's common sense learning? what happens to us when university knocks and it's like what do you do with trouble sometimes you know the book the family match just came out last month and i talk about oftentimes how we grow up i remember being the peacemaker in my family because of the conflict And that led into the attachment style of a people pleaser.

And so that's how university teaches you what to don on for a mask, what to don on as something else.

And I have three kids, which I call them kids because they're mine, but they're giants.

16 14 and an 11 year old girl and i am i'm in the business of leading with leadership right and what i notice is i've always loved to learn that's what i tell them the academics felt like imposed learning you have to learn this and this is the right way to learn this is the right way that you hold a pen This is the right way.

And I want to say that to our dear listeners, because if you had a parent academic or if you don't have a parent academic, there is this invitation to you just got to do what you got to do.

And I know that that's the direction we want to go in this podcast is not as much as, hey, tell me your GPA.

You know, I remember reading a book that was labeled University of Hard Knocks.

Sometimes I wonder if the mind doesn't work, do we still learn? It's just where's common sense learning? what happens to us when university knocks and it's like what do you do with trouble sometimes you know the book the family match just came out last month and i talk about oftentimes how we grow up i remember being the peacemaker in my family because of the conflict And that led into the attachment style of a people pleaser.

And so that's how university teaches you what to don on for a mask, what to don on as something else.
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