Self Improvement, Mindfulness and Mental Health Tips - The Coached Soul Podcast
Aug 14, 2026 · 31 min · 11 segments
In this heartfelt episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins sits down with educator, student leadership advisor, and coauthor Yvette Leal to explore family relationships, blended families…
Yvette LealGuest
Steve HudginsHost
So after a series of failed relationships, constant, like I would date a guy for a year and didn't work out.

What's wrong with me? And I turned to a friend of mine because I had done things to try to improve my own life by losing weight.

Like I got hit on, you know, the song scrub guys would lean over their friends seats and hang out the car yelling for me.

And so I was so hopeful I'd meet somebody that was really intelligent and I'd be like, okay, let me try to be my best person and my best self and maybe they'll want me.

And they might talk to me for a couple of times or a couple of dates and then they wouldn't call me.

and it's still not working and so i asked my best friend who's still my best friend like we were talking earlier and i said hey rachel like what's wrong with me and she was like okay she's like i love you she said but you do this one thing and i'm like what and she said every time i'm trying to talk to you you just like want to say me too Me too.

I've been there and you get so excited and she goes, it's not like bad, but maybe like you're just saying things so that they will, I don't know, like you want to be a part of the conversation and you say things that you connect with, but you really don't.

So I, you know, it doesn't, it doesn't bother me, but maybe it's bothering other people.

So after a series of failed relationships, constant, like I would date a guy for a year and didn't work out.

What's wrong with me? And I turned to a friend of mine because I had done things to try to improve my own life by losing weight.

Like I got hit on, you know, the song scrub guys would lean over their friends seats and hang out the car yelling for me.

And so I was so hopeful I'd meet somebody that was really intelligent and I'd be like, okay, let me try to be my best person and my best self and maybe they'll want me.

And they might talk to me for a couple of times or a couple of dates and then they wouldn't call me.

and it's still not working and so i asked my best friend who's still my best friend like we were talking earlier and i said hey rachel like what's wrong with me and she was like okay she's like i love you she said but you do this one thing and i'm like what and she said every time i'm trying to talk to you you just like want to say me too Me too.

I've been there and you get so excited and she goes, it's not like bad, but maybe like you're just saying things so that they will, I don't know, like you want to be a part of the conversation and you say things that you connect with, but you really don't.

So I, you know, it doesn't, it doesn't bother me, but maybe it's bothering other people.
The rest of this transcript — segmented and speaker-labeled, so you land on the exact moment something was said
Search every transcript — by keyword, by phrase, or by meaning, across every show Radar indexes
Trends — what is surging across podcasts, measured against its own baseline
Alerts — when a name you follow appears in a newly indexed episode
No account is needed to search Radar.