Oct 28, 2026 · 3 min · 3 segments
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The reality is a lot of men will say, she lied to me in the beginning.
She was so good.
She was so good.
She lied to me.
She lied to me.
She lied to me.
Women never, ever, ever lie.
Never do they lie.
They might not say the truth, but they always show you the truth.
Every woman that you've been with that has hurt you, used you, cheated on you, stolen from you, whatever it is, she showed you her red flags from day one.
You chose to ignore them.
you chose to ignore them this is what women will do they meet a man and they'll basically show their red flags in not so clear ways so they might show it by simply by how she dresses and she might show you that she might be provocative or she might show you with her sexual behavior she might be very sexually liberal she might show you in terms of how she talks about her exes she might say that oh this was i this guy was so toxic this guy was so this is that i'm still in love with this guy whatever it is she shows you SOME OF HER TRAITS.
SHE MIGHT SHOW YOU THROUGH HOW SHE IS AS A PARENT.
SHE MIGHT NOT HAVE KIDS AND NOT PRIORITIZE THEM, OR SHE MAY HAVE DENIED ANOTHER MAN ACCESS TO THE CHILDREN.
AND YOU THINK YOU'RE GOING TO BE CAPTAIN STEP DAD AND YOU'RE GOING TO SAVE THE DAY, BUT THE REALITY IS SHE SHOWED YOU THAT SHE DENIES MEN ACCESS TO THE CHILDREN IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE THEM.
AND YOU THINK YOU'RE GOING TO BE IMMUNE TO THAT BEHAVIOR? not possible so these women always and myself included we show men all of our red flags now we pick the man that allows us to get away with the most nonsense now if you don't have many red flags as a woman what will happen is you attract a man with really clear boundaries what will happen is a man with boundaries can only be with a woman who doesn't have many red flags because they're a perfect match she doesn't do too much he doesn't tolerate too much they work really well But a woman filled with red flags will only select a man who's filled with low self-esteem.
She will find the man who doesn't know how to exert his boundaries, doesn't know how to look for red flags, and doesn't know how to stand up for himself.
That's the man she will select.
So if you are a man with really low self-esteem and really value the connection more than the respect that she's giving you, you are going to find yourself constantly manipulated, cheated on and disrespected by women.
So this is how she knows.
Firstly, how a woman spots a man with low self-esteem is he seems to be super impressed.
The reality is a lot of men will say, she lied to me in the beginning.
She was so good.
She was so good.
She lied to me.
She lied to me.
She lied to me.
Women never, ever, ever lie.
Never do they lie.
They might not say the truth, but they always show you the truth.
Every woman that you've been with that has hurt you, used you, cheated on you, stolen from you, whatever it is, she showed you her red flags from day one.
You chose to ignore them.
you chose to ignore them this is what women will do they meet a man and they'll basically show their red flags in not so clear ways so they might show it by simply by how she dresses and she might show you that she might be provocative or she might show you with her sexual behavior she might be very sexually liberal she might show you in terms of how she talks about her exes she might say that oh this was i this guy was so toxic this guy was so this is that i'm still in love with this guy whatever it is she shows you SOME OF HER TRAITS.
SHE MIGHT SHOW YOU THROUGH HOW SHE IS AS A PARENT.
SHE MIGHT NOT HAVE KIDS AND NOT PRIORITIZE THEM, OR SHE MAY HAVE DENIED ANOTHER MAN ACCESS TO THE CHILDREN.
AND YOU THINK YOU'RE GOING TO BE CAPTAIN STEP DAD AND YOU'RE GOING TO SAVE THE DAY, BUT THE REALITY IS SHE SHOWED YOU THAT SHE DENIES MEN ACCESS TO THE CHILDREN IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE THEM.
AND YOU THINK YOU'RE GOING TO BE IMMUNE TO THAT BEHAVIOR? not possible so these women always and myself included we show men all of our red flags now we pick the man that allows us to get away with the most nonsense now if you don't have many red flags as a woman what will happen is you attract a man with really clear boundaries what will happen is a man with boundaries can only be with a woman who doesn't have many red flags because they're a perfect match she doesn't do too much he doesn't tolerate too much they work really well But a woman filled with red flags will only select a man who's filled with low self-esteem.
She will find the man who doesn't know how to exert his boundaries, doesn't know how to look for red flags, and doesn't know how to stand up for himself.
That's the man she will select.
So if you are a man with really low self-esteem and really value the connection more than the respect that she's giving you, you are going to find yourself constantly manipulated, cheated on and disrespected by women.
So this is how she knows.
Firstly, how a woman spots a man with low self-esteem is he seems to be super impressed.
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