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In the sexual point of view.
You can still
be sexually attractive if you're super tall, if you're in shape, you're still sexually attractive.
Whereas for women, if we're not attractive, we're not attractive.
But what's the go with, most women say they want a man who's like six, if you're not over six foot, you're dead to me.
All this kind of stuff that they're saying now on all the dating apps, I'm not on any dating apps now myself, but they do say that on dating apps.
What is the psychology behind that?
What I would say to women is make your criteria in men, the pool of men that are attracted to you, If you're a girl who wants a six foot two in shape man, but none of those men are giving you attention, change your type.
If that is the type of man that's constantly coming for you, keep that type.
You're very lucky.
So
women should change their type predicated on what's attracted to them?
Absolutely.
It would be a completely pointless strategy being attracted to a man who has no interest in you.
No point.
If I'm a girl that is, I don't know, let's say, for example, I'm super overweight or I'm super, super short and I'm not getting the type of guys that I like.
Change your type.
They're not going to like you.
You either stay single or beg them to like you or use sex to get them to like you or make them need you because you don't feel like they want you.
You're going to set yourself up for psychological failure.
So what percentage of women then are going out there into the marketplace now? misaligned on the type of man that they even want
majority i would say majority here's the thing here's how you know you you have a realistic expectation of what you want those type of men that you want always want you back Simple.
Same with men.
Men and women.
Here's how you know you've got the right realistic expectations.
In the sexual point of view.
You can still
be sexually attractive if you're super tall, if you're in shape, you're still sexually attractive.
Whereas for women, if we're not attractive, we're not attractive.
But what's the go with, most women say they want a man who's like six, if you're not over six foot, you're dead to me.
All this kind of stuff that they're saying now on all the dating apps, I'm not on any dating apps now myself, but they do say that on dating apps.
What is the psychology behind that?
What I would say to women is make your criteria in men, the pool of men that are attracted to you, If you're a girl who wants a six foot two in shape man, but none of those men are giving you attention, change your type.
If that is the type of man that's constantly coming for you, keep that type.
You're very lucky.
So
women should change their type predicated on what's attracted to them?
Absolutely.
It would be a completely pointless strategy being attracted to a man who has no interest in you.
No point.
If I'm a girl that is, I don't know, let's say, for example, I'm super overweight or I'm super, super short and I'm not getting the type of guys that I like.
Change your type.
They're not going to like you.
You either stay single or beg them to like you or use sex to get them to like you or make them need you because you don't feel like they want you.
You're going to set yourself up for psychological failure.
So what percentage of women then are going out there into the marketplace now? misaligned on the type of man that they even want
majority i would say majority here's the thing here's how you know you you have a realistic expectation of what you want those type of men that you want always want you back Simple.
Same with men.
Men and women.
Here's how you know you've got the right realistic expectations.
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