How To Remove Energy Drains And Create Relationships That Elevate Your Life

It's called the Connection Lift Challenge.

You're going to be tuning in.

We always are going to like... of do a twist on the tune in so you just keep getting more and more and more and more advanced in your tune in experience okay so it doesn't matter if you are brand new just starting out or if you have i just tuned in with a gentleman that's about to exit a billion dollar company it doesn't matter you all have the ability to leverage this i leverage it with my team i leveraged it my god i think i did an almost an hour worth of a tune-in process this morning with the team so what i really want you to be doing is think of magnetic connections and i i did a post the other day speaking of posts that said you know we do all this business plan at the beginning of the year but do we ever do a relationship plan do we and great story around this woman at a restaurant older older very old lady actually very cute um and a friend of mine was sitting there and the waitress was saying oh yeah you know i've been married for i think it was like almost 60 years and my friend said well what's the secret she said january friends like January what does that even mean January every January she said my husband and I go to therapy for the entire month once a week and that resets resets the relationship thought brilliant god i love that i do now i don't actually take my poor e to uh therapy but i do on our hikes on our walk i bring this back in and january is an amazing amazing reset for that so i want you to really understand this whole idea of magnetic connections because here's the thing i want you to deepen your bones that you are not going to be chasing anyone because if you are there's an energetic misbalance put that down an energetic misbalance if you're if you're going and going and trying and trying and it's not happening and that you're having to convince you're having to do a little performance you're having to like do something that just feels off We have to be trusting.

We have to be looking at like, again, for those people pleasers out there, I know who you are.

This is a big one.

And there always has to be to have a really great relationship in business and in your personal life.

It's gotta be the give and the take.

If it's ever one sided, you gotta be asking yourself, why are we still doing this? or what do you need to continue super important okay so i want you to be raising your vibration this month i want you to be thinking about energy about what you're bringing into it about somebody who comes in to your environment and just being like able to automatically lean in and say that person elevates that person drains right it's like the pendulum like poop poop is it going off to the right so you got the full tank or is it going off to the left it's empty honestly this will become automatic for you but initially you have to really be thinking about okay i want you to be thinking who are you naturally drawn to and There is a great example and funny, it just came to me.

It's actually a few people that are gonna be listening to this need to hear this.

first first impression right and we uh we actually start to make our first impression before you are cognitively aware it's even happening the whole thing takes about seven seconds you already are putting it through your filter and deciding what's wrong with them what's wrong with them and so what i want you to be thinking about is as you start to feel kind of that negative pull of someone i want you to stop and pause you've heard it in my book many many times the pause principle i just want you to pause and say why why sometimes it's because the person is actually pushing you on something that you don't like about yourself think about that sometimes that they irritate you you don't even know why i want you to think what is it exactly that irritates me and ask yourself do you do that did you used to do that you gotten over that but i want you to start pushing i want you to start connecting with your wise woman highest self and start to start to evaluate why people make you feel the way they do why doesn't a business why does a business associate make you kind of feel like the heebie-jeebies they're like i just don't like him why Because a lot of times there is a reason, there is a training ground for you to learn.

And I have often said, and in my book, I've been thinking about my book a lot lately.

I had a business situation where I didn't trust.

I didn't trust, but I knew I didn't like the guy.

And later I learned why.

And I want you to know that had I done this exercise of just really leaning in instead of ignoring it, instead of just shutting the door and moving on, it would have allowed me to come to terms with how i felt about this person a lot sooner and i want you to start have that self reflection we heard about self-harmony self-reflection okay so i want you when you tune into the frequency that the person has i also want you to be aware that you have the ability to tune into a different frequency by tuning in by elevating yourself by realizing like damn that person is just taking every ounce of me and sucking me dry What if the next version of your life isn't missing? It's waiting for you to say yes.