So this was posted at the time of recording 15 days ago, so kind of fresh.
[laughs] And they used the venting but advice welcome tag.
So this starts out by saying, "Let me preface this by saying as a male 27-year-old with a female now 28-" Before the relationship even began, I would converse with my soon-to-be ex about how I never wanted to have children whatsoever.
I said I would never bring a life into society that is in the shape that it is currently.
Not saying things can't get better, but right now genuinely is not the time to do it.
That and the fact that I said multiple times that I never wanted them.
In the beginning, she understood where I was coming from before a relationship was even established.
She even told me she has tried before with previous relationships, but said that she could not get pregnant at all, which with my naive brain, I believed.
But as time went on, we hit bumps in the road during our actual relationship.
It looks like you might be jotting something down.
[laughs]
Oh
I feel for this guy, but, uh, if he was certain that he didn't wanna have kids, he shouldn't have left it up to her in the first place.
Even though she said, "I don't think I can have kids," he shouldn't have relied on that.
I mean, I know there are a lot of men that are anxious about the idea, whether or not they have had children, um, but it's a really simple procedure.
Yeah
... any, any man who claims to be child free but is also hesitant to get a vasectomy, I would raise my eyebrow at that.
Hmm.
So this was posted at the time of recording 15 days ago, so kind of fresh.
[laughs] And they used the venting but advice welcome tag.
So this starts out by saying, "Let me preface this by saying as a male 27-year-old with a female now 28-" Before the relationship even began, I would converse with my soon-to-be ex about how I never wanted to have children whatsoever.
I said I would never bring a life into society that is in the shape that it is currently.
Not saying things can't get better, but right now genuinely is not the time to do it.
That and the fact that I said multiple times that I never wanted them.
In the beginning, she understood where I was coming from before a relationship was even established.
She even told me she has tried before with previous relationships, but said that she could not get pregnant at all, which with my naive brain, I believed.
But as time went on, we hit bumps in the road during our actual relationship.
It looks like you might be jotting something down.
[laughs]
Oh
I feel for this guy, but, uh, if he was certain that he didn't wanna have kids, he shouldn't have left it up to her in the first place.
Even though she said, "I don't think I can have kids," he shouldn't have relied on that.
I mean, I know there are a lot of men that are anxious about the idea, whether or not they have had children, um, but it's a really simple procedure.
Yeah
... any, any man who claims to be child free but is also hesitant to get a vasectomy, I would raise my eyebrow at that.
Hmm.
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