Overthinkers Anonymous by Zikoko
Jun 6, 2026 · 1 hr 9 min · 10 segments
In this episode, we talk about sexual health from the male POV, but not the usual “it’s her body, her problem” escape. We talk real pregnancy scares, hilarious but tense stories of prayer and…
Olu AsaoluGuest
Deji OsikoyaHost
But first, before we even delve into it deeply, the way, the way we handle sexual conversations, right?
Yes.
To a large degree, I feel like a lot of, like, even shame, for example, is allotted to the woman.
Yeah.
Yes.
It's quite feminized.
Mm-hmm.
So I don't know that that was what I got from it as far as, like, it being, like, this benevolence thing.
It's more so just, like, especially, and I think part of the, how I, I want to phrase that is coming from a world in which a lots of men, like myself, that I described earlier, were ignorant, it's kind of like, ah.
I disagree with that, even.
I don't think a lot of men are ignorant about-
... contraceptives or family planning or all of that.
Um, so we have this thing, I think it's called the NDHS, something to do with Demographic Health Survey, right?
And it showed that 95% of men a- knew at least one contraceptive method, but 15% of them were practicing it.
It's a thing where you know what to do, it's just you can't be bothered.
I don't think it's an ignorance thing.
I think it's a lack of fucks given.
But first, before we even delve into it deeply, the way, the way we handle sexual conversations, right?
Yes.
To a large degree, I feel like a lot of, like, even shame, for example, is allotted to the woman.
Yeah.
Yes.
It's quite feminized.
Mm-hmm.
So I don't know that that was what I got from it as far as, like, it being, like, this benevolence thing.
It's more so just, like, especially, and I think part of the, how I, I want to phrase that is coming from a world in which a lots of men, like myself, that I described earlier, were ignorant, it's kind of like, ah.
I disagree with that, even.
I don't think a lot of men are ignorant about-
... contraceptives or family planning or all of that.
Um, so we have this thing, I think it's called the NDHS, something to do with Demographic Health Survey, right?
And it showed that 95% of men a- knew at least one contraceptive method, but 15% of them were practicing it.
It's a thing where you know what to do, it's just you can't be bothered.
I don't think it's an ignorance thing.
I think it's a lack of fucks given.
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