Finding you Confidence Season 1 Ep. 5

Again, this episode five, and we're gonna be talking about finding your confidence.

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This may be a little deep.

A little deep, you know?

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Uh, 'cause, you know, finding your conf- confidence is, is complicated.

Uh, if you don't know where, uh, where it is or how to start, it can be complicated.

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Um, mo- I think, you know, I'm, I'm not gonna speak for every- Well, I'm gonna say a lo- a lot of people, uh, run through life with no confidence.

And from what I see is, uh, it leads to resentment, uh, low self-esteem, and, uh, eventually you feel defeated when you don't have that confidence.

Uh, so, so you must dig in, you must find a way to find your confidence, but, you know, has anybody ever had this conversation with you about your confidence level? You know, you know, most people, you know, don't wanna talk about it.

Don't wanna talk about stuff like this 'cause it's, it's, could be a little deep.

It can, it, it can bring a, it can open up some old wounds.

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Uh, and it, and, and it can be a little uncomfortable because you may not want to adjust some things in your life in order to get to confidence.

So, uh, you know, Curtis, I, I believe that, you know, confidence, uh, starts with preparation.

You must, uh, you must be prepared or start the preparation to, to, to gain the confidence.

What do you feel about that?

Well, I think about the times that I, I do things when I'm not prepared or I have done in the past.

Uh, you know, and, and, and what that makes me feel like.

Um, and there's [laughs] all my friends, uh, know me as a, I'm a planner.

You know, I like things to happen a certain way.

I think I've made this statement before, I like to line up all the dominoes and hit the one and, and all of them fall into place.

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Um, but I haven't always been that way.