Controlling Mom Parts

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And when I take a walk by myself, I often will invite my pain to come out and just really bloom.

And there's always resistance like, no, no, I don't want to feel that.

Oh, here again, it's still here.

And, you know, and it'll just like a little bit and then more and then more and then a lot of it.

And then what I discover every single time, and I'm going to say it here so I don't forget it, is it never hurts me.

And it always helps me to let it come and to just allow it to be here, give it some space.

It's not helpful to try to get away from it.

That's the courage.

It's the courage.

That's good.

That's a huge leap of faith to allow that to happen and trust that.

Yeah, that's right.

Not

shut it down, not push it away.

Takes a

lot of courage.

It takes a lot of courage.

And the more times you do it, the more it feels reliable.

And I would say, coming back to the teenage kid thing, You know, what a gift it is to be able to offer our children trust.

Like, I see you and I trust you as a whole individual are gonna go have your existence just the way you're meant to.

here, go ahead, you know, have it.

That's really kind of what they're looking for as they become, uh, more closer to adulthood.

And our reckoning with that is just so, so many trailheads in that around our own, our own parts, our own rooms.

Um, I've got two pretty wise kids because both of them at different times have said, Mom, we're going to make mistakes.