Gabriella WildeHostI actually think people who are able to
have almost no fear because they've had the conversations before.

Just months later, I was given my own life-limiting diagnosis, which thankfully turned out to be wrong.

But having those two seismic experiences so close together left me flooded with questions.

Why are we so afraid of dying? What happens when we die? What role does grief play in being human? How do I stay connected to the preciousness of life?
I will say that grief is the secret bridge to joy, and it's a portal.
I think of all the time I've wasted over the last six years worrying about my cancer.
That's the main thing I've learned.
We've all got to die, so get on with things while you can.
Don't waste time worrying.
Easier said than done.
I actually think people who are able to
have almost no fear because they've had the conversations before.

Just months later, I was given my own life-limiting diagnosis, which thankfully turned out to be wrong.

But having those two seismic experiences so close together left me flooded with questions.

Why are we so afraid of dying? What happens when we die? What role does grief play in being human? How do I stay connected to the preciousness of life?
I will say that grief is the secret bridge to joy, and it's a portal.
I think of all the time I've wasted over the last six years worrying about my cancer.
That's the main thing I've learned.
We've all got to die, so get on with things while you can.
Don't waste time worrying.
Easier said than done.
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