Conflict is inevitable in marriage, but it doesn't have to be destructive. In this episode, Derek, Andrew, and Gabrielle discuss how to move from unhealthy patterns of defensiveness and scorekeeping toward biblical reconciliation, healthy communication, and deeper intimacy.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
\- When conflict arises, do you naturally move toward fight, flight, or freeze?
\- Which unhealthy conflict pattern shows up most often in your marriage?
\- What family-of-origin experiences influence the way you handle disagreement?
\- How would your conflicts change if your mindset became "How do we win?" instead of "How do I win?"
\- Do you have trusted people in your life who can help mediate conflict when needed?
\- Is there an unresolved conflict that needs a conversation this week?
RESOURCES:
The Thing Beneath the Thing by Steve Carter
Harris Creek sermon series: "Conflicted"
Gabrielle McCulloughHost
Derek DavidsonHost