*The Cost of Being the Man You Think You Have to Be with Dr RON CAMACHO

when you're telling her stories of your childhood and, you know, you tap into her emotions, right? When she's feeling bad for some of the things you tell her, you know? And again-

But for, for a, for a general Patton, Genghis Khan, tough-as-nails man-

Right

...

I think there's a, there's a, you know, there's often a huge challenge to also accepting, "Hey, Dr. Ron, you've got a problem."And the problem is with you, and you need to work on your problem.

Now, that's not often an easy thing to hear when you're like, when you're the...

That so, how...

When you were told you got a lot of issues and you need to y- did you resist the going to do the work? Did you like, "N- I'm not the one with the problem." It like, it's like everyone else is...

Like, how did you, how did you respond to that?

I think the first, first session I was like that, and then maybe the second session, you know, she was really good.

She was able to poke through.

And then by the third session, I was in it and I was spilling my guts.

Mm.

And I was crying, you know?

Mm.

Mm.

And she tapped into me.

Mm.

And I will tell you that those sessions, I felt like I was running, you know, not a marathon, but an ultramarathon.

You know, I would come home totally exhausted, you know-

Mm

... mentally, physically.

I mean, they just wore out.

And I think deep down inside, I was ready.

I was ready to get all this stuff out.