Meanwhile, She with Aisha Beau
Aug 4, 2026 · 1 hr 28 min · 16 segments
What if the follower count everyone said mattered… doesn't? This week I sit down with Amber Mayfield Hewett — event producer, founder of To Be Hosted, author of *Your Turn to Host*, Forbes 30 Under…
Amber Mayfield HewettGuest
Aisha Beau FrisbeyHostThe New York Times called your Central Park picnic that you had to celebrate Black life and leisure.
So what was that day about for you? And I guess what shifted after that picnic and within, I guess, the way that you present your business and the way that you go about
Yeah, I think, you know, for me, it's always been about joy and having places where you're not just feeling safe, but you can be joyful, you can laugh out loud, you can be curious about things.
And I didn't feel like, you know, working in events, working in hospitality for very many years, that there was always these like fine dining experiences that made us feel welcomed.
And I think I just carried that energy from to be hosted to how I live and host my friends, like going out of my way to make them feel comfortable and cater to as a stance for like, you deserve this.
You know, gathering at home, playing the music at the volume that you want to, you know, really just having a focus on joy that is unadulterated by the rest of the world is like what I think is interesting about events and gathering and parties and such.
Yeah, I love that emphasis on joy because I think sometimes some people find hosting very daunting and, you know, very tiring and tedious.
And then there are some people who do have the anxiety, but they do want to host.
So how do you feel you bring joy into hosting small gatherings, large gatherings, things that have, like, a lot of moving parts?
Well, I think, first of all, social media completely ruined how we host.
know what? But I would think that it made it more of a thing because now people are seeing tablescapes and charcuterie boards and things like that where they weren't, you know, previously.
So I think we've got a little bit of exposure and curiosity that comes from social media.
But we also have a lot of pressure and positioning for hosting that turns it into things that it doesn't have to be.
The New York Times called your Central Park picnic that you had to celebrate Black life and leisure.
So what was that day about for you? And I guess what shifted after that picnic and within, I guess, the way that you present your business and the way that you go about
Yeah, I think, you know, for me, it's always been about joy and having places where you're not just feeling safe, but you can be joyful, you can laugh out loud, you can be curious about things.
And I didn't feel like, you know, working in events, working in hospitality for very many years, that there was always these like fine dining experiences that made us feel welcomed.
And I think I just carried that energy from to be hosted to how I live and host my friends, like going out of my way to make them feel comfortable and cater to as a stance for like, you deserve this.
You know, gathering at home, playing the music at the volume that you want to, you know, really just having a focus on joy that is unadulterated by the rest of the world is like what I think is interesting about events and gathering and parties and such.
Yeah, I love that emphasis on joy because I think sometimes some people find hosting very daunting and, you know, very tiring and tedious.
And then there are some people who do have the anxiety, but they do want to host.
So how do you feel you bring joy into hosting small gatherings, large gatherings, things that have, like, a lot of moving parts?
Well, I think, first of all, social media completely ruined how we host.
know what? But I would think that it made it more of a thing because now people are seeing tablescapes and charcuterie boards and things like that where they weren't, you know, previously.
So I think we've got a little bit of exposure and curiosity that comes from social media.
But we also have a lot of pressure and positioning for hosting that turns it into things that it doesn't have to be.
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