Couples Therapy For You and Your Business: Emilie Nutley, Money Coach

I love the prism of safety.

And first of all, working on that.

And what I heard between your words was also scarcity versus abundance.

Whereas if I already have everything that I need, and then I can choose to get something else because it would add to me, but not because I'm lacking anything, not because I have this scarcity.

So we're not just... kind of trying to cover this, you know, to fill this hole or to heal this wound or something, but we just want to grow, which is valid.

And, you know, we're in the business world, we're all for it.

So that's really, really interesting.

And what also came up for me while you were speaking was how When we get another program and another program, it's like basically we're creating noise for ourselves.

And it's very easy because you're then like very busy doing like going through all those programs.

And it's easy to say, oh, my schedule is full.

I must be doing really well.

But actually, are you doing well with what really matters for yourself and for your business?

yeah absolutely I think getting clear on what it's all for I think it's really important as well like what is what is the goal what are you actually trying to achieve and why because I think sometimes we put these big shiny goals on that maybe we've seen other people have in in the internet world and it doesn't actually mean anything to us like I've had clients who are chasing six figures and when we've done the numbers they needed half of that to feel comfortable yeah So it's such a personal thing that work out what it is for you right now.

And I think that's where that safety comes in is if you learn what is enough and Because that's the thing, the biggest fear, like scarcity is just the fear of there's not enough, the fear of not having enough, the fear of it running out.

Or not feeling like you are

enough,

you know?

Yeah, and it's have you ever actually done the work to realize what is enough? And I think once you sit with that and go, this is enough, I want more and that's okay, this is the goal, and then you can have some really clear steps to achieving that goal.

Yeah, I love this because I think

we're both big fans of many programs.

and we run our own programs, but it does really, really matter where you're doing it from and how you are

while you're doing it.

Absolutely.