Sep 8, 2026 · 40 min · 12 segments
Our twenties really are one big learning curve. In this episode, we're sharing 10 things we've learnt along the way — some the hard way, some through therapy, some through relationships, and some…
Um, so first thing that I learnt in my 20s, if you are wondering if a boy likes you back, he doesn't.
True.
[laughs]
That's so true.
Like, if there's any confusion if a guy is into you, he's not into you.
He's not.
You shouldn't be guessing.
Unfortunately.
Like, it, boys make it very obvious if they're keen or not.
Yeah, especially if you hear something like, "Oh, sorry, I wasn't on my phone." Bah.
[laughs]
Bullshit.
You got 11 hours screen time.
[laughs]
You're on your phone.
Everyone is freaking glued to their phone.
You're actually actively on your phone.
If he wanted to, he would.
[laughs]
Yeah, that's so true, though.
And I think about that you can carry that into a lot of your relationships.
Mm.
You know? If you shouldn't really be wondering where you s- where you sit with someone.
Like, I think if you, you should know.
Like-
Um, so first thing that I learnt in my 20s, if you are wondering if a boy likes you back, he doesn't.
True.
[laughs]
That's so true.
Like, if there's any confusion if a guy is into you, he's not into you.
He's not.
You shouldn't be guessing.
Unfortunately.
Like, it, boys make it very obvious if they're keen or not.
Yeah, especially if you hear something like, "Oh, sorry, I wasn't on my phone." Bah.
[laughs]
Bullshit.
You got 11 hours screen time.
[laughs]
You're on your phone.
Everyone is freaking glued to their phone.
You're actually actively on your phone.
If he wanted to, he would.
[laughs]
Yeah, that's so true, though.
And I think about that you can carry that into a lot of your relationships.
Mm.
You know? If you shouldn't really be wondering where you s- where you sit with someone.
Like, I think if you, you should know.
Like-
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