It's HERTIME with Cody Sanders
Jun 23, 2026 · 58 min · 11 segments
Send us Fan Mail **What if your struggles with food have very little to do with food itself?** In this powerful conversation, Cody sits down with…
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Amber CaudleGuest
Cody SandersHost
I think that there's a lot of us that might be thinking that they don't identify with having an eating disorder.

It is like you said, that long list of all of the ways that it helped to support you and kind of fuel you, feed you.

And so I love the line that you said, you finally figured out what you were hungry for.

And so I think that's where I want to start as we kind of go into this conversation.

What are women actually hungry for? Because I think one of the food is the language of unmet needs.

So that was really what took me to the next level of my recovery is when I finally realized that these... acts of binging or restricting or emotional eating, even me calling myself fat, those were all symptoms and divine messages from my body, from spirit, I like to use God, of something deeper that was going on.

And I didn't realize that these unmet needs, the desire, I mean, so for me, I started to realize that I had a deep abandonment wound and rejection wound.

And the food was helping me nourish myself when I didn't really know and have the words to figure out what those needs were.

And I think now with women, and like you said, so many of us in the health and nutrition world and fitness world and how I speak, yes, I do speak to women that do have disordered eating, but it can be someone that eats when they're bored or anxious or stressed or emotionally eats or soothes with food or sneak eats.

What are the macros? Is this going to make me fat? Maybe carbs are going to make me fat.

Did I eat the wrong thing? And all of that adds so much stress to our nervous system.

And really, when I start thinking too much about food, it's a really good sign and symptom of there's something else that needs to be addressed because it's not about the brownie or whatever it is.

I think that there's a lot of us that might be thinking that they don't identify with having an eating disorder.

It is like you said, that long list of all of the ways that it helped to support you and kind of fuel you, feed you.

And so I love the line that you said, you finally figured out what you were hungry for.

And so I think that's where I want to start as we kind of go into this conversation.

What are women actually hungry for? Because I think one of the food is the language of unmet needs.

So that was really what took me to the next level of my recovery is when I finally realized that these... acts of binging or restricting or emotional eating, even me calling myself fat, those were all symptoms and divine messages from my body, from spirit, I like to use God, of something deeper that was going on.

And I didn't realize that these unmet needs, the desire, I mean, so for me, I started to realize that I had a deep abandonment wound and rejection wound.

And the food was helping me nourish myself when I didn't really know and have the words to figure out what those needs were.

And I think now with women, and like you said, so many of us in the health and nutrition world and fitness world and how I speak, yes, I do speak to women that do have disordered eating, but it can be someone that eats when they're bored or anxious or stressed or emotionally eats or soothes with food or sneak eats.

What are the macros? Is this going to make me fat? Maybe carbs are going to make me fat.

Did I eat the wrong thing? And all of that adds so much stress to our nervous system.

And really, when I start thinking too much about food, it's a really good sign and symptom of there's something else that needs to be addressed because it's not about the brownie or whatever it is.
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