33. Honor Your Man with My Favorite Tip- the Lingam Massage

So last week we talked about the yoni massage, which if you're female bodied is something you would receive from your partner.

And if you had the chance to receive it, girl, I hope you felt honored.

I hope you felt revered and I hope you ended your experience feeling like a total goddess.

And if you did, and you're thinking that, wow, I enjoyed this so much, is there something I can do for my man? Not in return, but just to similarly honor him and make him feel revered and make him feel like the God that he is.

And the answer is absolutely yes.

So that's what we're going to talk about today.

And first, I want to explain that similarly to the yoni being the energetic space where the woman receives sexual energy, the man's space, you know, call it the penis, call it the cock, the package, whatever you like.

In tantra, it's called the lingam.

And similar to the yoni, it's greater than the sum of the parts.

It's the entire energetic space.

sexual energy that the man has for giving pleasure.

Of course he feels pleasure too and receives pleasure but his orientation is outward and it's forgiving and that's the expression of his masculinity in terms of sex.

So if you are wanting to honor your man and just make him feel amazing, the lingam massage is absolutely the best way to do that.

And before you start, I want you to kind of consider, like, where are you coming from in terms of wanting to give this experience for your man? And I want you to just take a few deep breaths and feel into it.

And feel into that space of, I want to do something for my man.

I want to honor him.

I want to worship him.

I want to serve him.

So if you're feeling those things or any similar phrases or words, that's kind of the desire space that I want you to be in.

in order to give the lingam massage so if you can find your own words or hear in mind this sense of genuine wanting wanting to give because wanting is genuine desire so i want you to stir that up within yourself and that way once you feel it that will ensure that you are a full-bodied yes or a hell yes to giving to your man in this experience.

And I say this carefully because I know that oftentimes as women, we feel like we have to, or we need to, or we're obliged to do things for him because we're married, because it's our marital duty, because, oh, I just want to make him happy and look, I get that.

I get that that's the societal narrative.

But I want you to get out of that.

And I want you to feel into your own embodied space of wanting.

And if you're not in that space, if there's something blocking you, I want you to breathe through it.