If You Want Commitment From Her, Stop Doing This Immediately

This is not for guys who consciously choose a casual setup and are happy with it.

This is for the guy who thinks things are casual, but isn't actually running his behavior that way.

Or the guy who genuinely likes a girl and wants something real, but doesn't understand why the dynamic feels off.

Either way, I'm going to give you the framework that fixes both situations because the root cause is the same.

Let me tell you how this actually starts because it's never really a decision.

You meet a girl.

There's chemistry.

You start hanging out.

You sleep together.

And because things feel good, you naturally want to keep them going.

So you text her to check in.

She responds.

You make plans.

She stays over.

You make plans again.

Before you know it, you're seeing her twice a week, you're texting her every day, you're acting in every measurable way like the guy who's in a relationship.

But you never said that, and she never said that, and now you're in this undefined thing where nobody knows the rules.

I went through this myself a million times.

I was living with a buddy.

We were both dating coaches.

Our whole agenda was to stay in the game and keep our options open.

And I met a girl who was generally great.

She'd ask what I was doing that day and I'd have nothing going on.

So I'd say, yeah, you know, come over.

And she started staying two or three nights a week.