RHOM’s Alexia Nepola brings in a professional to improve her love life

Last time we went, we were talking a lot about dating and relationships.

And I'd love to get sort of a state of the union in terms of where you are and if that still remains kind of a central theme for you.

Well, I feel like relationships have always been a big part of my life.

I feel like I've been married my whole adult life.

So as I said, for me, they've always been important.

But this time that I've been on my own has honestly been so good for me.

I've discovered so much about myself and so much self-awareness and self-love.

And, you know, just reflecting on why, you know, my adult life and my adult relationships have been the way that they've been.

You know, I want to see only the positive because I am an optimistic and I continue to believe in love.

And I think that that's one of my things that I love too hard.

But, you know, I'm also proud of it.

You know, I don't want to change.

You know, I like the way I am.

I'm just like I said, more confident.

I know what I want.

I know my self-worth.

You know, sometimes it's, you know, it's scary to be alone.

And I think it's not because you need that male partner.

You just don't know any other way of being, which is kind of like, you know, my adult life that I've always been in a relationship and married.

Yeah.

Yeah.

You know, it's interesting.

I work with a lot of female clients who talk about this issue.

this sort of, I don't know, internal and also societal dilemma of like wanting to love, love, wanting to be in love, wanting a partnership and this pull around whether or not that's an okay thing or an empowered thing or a sign of weakness.

And I love that you're identifying and owning with the desire for connection and partnership.