78: He chooses you over the job as a police wife, deputy wife, fire wife or military wife

Here’s how she transformed her marriage from avoiding her “shaken coke” deputy k9 officer husband as she walked through their home not knowing the cause of his blow ups and felt like he chose the job over her as she accepted all optional overtime without talking to her first about time that they could have spent together. After 3 months in Resilient Ride Along, they gently kiss as they pass in the halls of their home, she knows exactly what to say to her husband when he had a bad day to bring him close to her + open up to her, and she feels like he chooses her over the job as they make overtime decision together and unapologetically take trips to get the heck out of dodge together. Resources from this episode: https://msha.ke/heelsandholster