Finding Your Way Home From Quiet Quitting

We're talking about something I heard on the Oprah podcast.

It actually aired back in August, but I just happened to catch it over the weekend.

And it's regarding...

this trend out there where women over 40, mostly, is the age group, who have emotionally detached from their marriages, but yet they're remaining married and not really going through divorces.

So the divorce rate is kind of leveling off in that age group.

And what they're saying is this is quiet quitting.

People are quiet quitting on their marriages.

And We're going to dive into that from a different perspective.

For those of you that are new to the podcast, Beverly and I are relationship coaches out of Honolulu, Hawaii.

We have worked with thousands of couples.

We are not doctors, not psychologists, not psychiatrists.

We are actually social scientists who take a very, very different look at relationships because we lean on relationships.

Not gender, not men and women, but we lean on heart and head in relationships.

In your relationship, one of you is going to be in head mode.

One of you takes on a role of making decisions very logically, very specifically, black, white, right, wrong.

Do it this way.

Very structured, very direct communicators.

That person's the head partner.

That's me and Beverly's and my relationship.

And then there's the heart partner.

Beverly's the heart in our relationship, and heart partners really are making their decisions based on how everybody feels.

We make decisions differently in our relationships.

This is not gender-based.

Now, we'll talk about that some more as we talk about this quiet quitting in relationship concept.

But realize we're going to come at this from a different angle.