My Wife and I Are Polyamorous | Listener Letter!

Here we go.

Number one.

Hanging out forever.

Your presence online has helped me so much! Two exclamation marks.

Let's

go.

I have been drowning in my relationship.

I, 29F, am married to another woman who's 36, and we've been together almost six years, and we've recently become polyamorous.

Okay.

Interesting.

So obviously there's drama.

I've always wanted to try polyamory and have been open about that since we got married, which at first she didn't want to do, but now she's on board with it and exploring her options, both in men and women.

Okay.

We are both very mature and connected, so we feel ready for this.

But I recently fell for another woman I used to work with who also happens to be married, and she's married to a man.

This is an interesting dynamic already.

I love it.

I've had feelings for her for a while, but I did not think that she was interested in women until she told me about how her first relationship ever was a girl.

Once she told me that I couldn't get her out of my head.

A year later, I decided to stop ignoring my feelings and finally got the courage to tell her how I felt about her.

And when I did, she said she felt the same way.

Even though she likes me, she is still very avoidant.

I know.

Congratulations.

Yeah, there you go.