Jul 28, 2026 · 47 min · 15 segments
Besties, our most asked question is "what is it like dating interracially?" but our second???!! ***"How have y'all been together for NINE years?"*** So we're finally answering it. This week we're…
Asia CorrineHost
Grant BlackwellHost
But we wanted to talk to you guys today about how to maintain a healthy long-term relationship.
Because that's a question that I feel like we get a lot through DMs or in comments and social.
When I talk to people and they, you know, hear that I'm in a... long-term relationship they're like how do you do it and it seems like this crazy taboo thing now at this point because it's it's so rare i guess you know
Like when I tell people how long we've been together, in my mind, we're still so young and youthful and vibrant.
But when I tell people that we've been together for nine years, they like trip out.
Especially they get really weird when they find out that we've been together nine years and we're not married or engaged.
And a lot of people measure the worth of our relationship by whether or not we're married or engaged to one another.
And I think that that's a common misconception is, If you don't have the ring, where's the ring, girl? You don't have the ring.
end like way less than nine years, right? Isn't that like the common amount of years that are in a marriage?
But we wanted to talk to you guys today about how to maintain a healthy long-term relationship.
Because that's a question that I feel like we get a lot through DMs or in comments and social.
When I talk to people and they, you know, hear that I'm in a... long-term relationship they're like how do you do it and it seems like this crazy taboo thing now at this point because it's it's so rare i guess you know
Like when I tell people how long we've been together, in my mind, we're still so young and youthful and vibrant.
But when I tell people that we've been together for nine years, they like trip out.
Especially they get really weird when they find out that we've been together nine years and we're not married or engaged.
And a lot of people measure the worth of our relationship by whether or not we're married or engaged to one another.
And I think that that's a common misconception is, If you don't have the ring, where's the ring, girl? You don't have the ring.
end like way less than nine years, right? Isn't that like the common amount of years that are in a marriage?
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