Get a 6-Figure Job You Love and Thrive
Jun 30, 2026 · 30 min · 10 segments
What if the reason you're not getting the job offer has nothing to do with your resume, your experience, or the job market — and everything to do with what's happening inside your head? In this…
All right, so I don't know if you've been listening for a long time or if you're new, so I wanted to do a back to the basics kind of episode.
The thing that started this whole thing for me in 2018 [chuckles] when I discovered it, and it's called the thought model, and I've used it every single day since I discovered it, and I got certified in it, and it's basically was a way to explain how life worked in a way that I understood and that I could gain the control that I needed to always feel like I had the power to make progress.
And when I say always, that might be an exaggeration 'cause of course, I'm human and I slip into, slip into victim mentality sometimes where I feel like, "Oh, this is outta my control." But for the most part, I'm able to bring myself back to feeling empowered and taking the actions I need to get where I need to go and enjoy the journey.
And so today I wanted to go into just a basic episode of what that looks like for me and how you can apply it to you, and it basically is five categories.
The model is five categories, and every single problem that you have in your life fits into one of these five categories, and there is no exception.
The circumstance is something that cannot be changed, at least not immediately.
Um, other people, what other people do or think or say, um, that's a circumstance.
Um, things that we all know exist in the world as how they are, [chuckles] like say the, the President of the United States is who he is.
We might not all love it, but we agree on it, right? We agree that that is what is fact.
That is essentially the basis of the thought model is we have a circumstance, but the circumstance doesn't actually become good or bad or anything until we have a thought about it, and a thought is the sentence in our brain that we assign to the circumstance, or many sentences that we might assign to a circumstance.
All right, so I don't know if you've been listening for a long time or if you're new, so I wanted to do a back to the basics kind of episode.
The thing that started this whole thing for me in 2018 [chuckles] when I discovered it, and it's called the thought model, and I've used it every single day since I discovered it, and I got certified in it, and it's basically was a way to explain how life worked in a way that I understood and that I could gain the control that I needed to always feel like I had the power to make progress.
And when I say always, that might be an exaggeration 'cause of course, I'm human and I slip into, slip into victim mentality sometimes where I feel like, "Oh, this is outta my control." But for the most part, I'm able to bring myself back to feeling empowered and taking the actions I need to get where I need to go and enjoy the journey.
And so today I wanted to go into just a basic episode of what that looks like for me and how you can apply it to you, and it basically is five categories.
The model is five categories, and every single problem that you have in your life fits into one of these five categories, and there is no exception.
The circumstance is something that cannot be changed, at least not immediately.
Um, other people, what other people do or think or say, um, that's a circumstance.
Um, things that we all know exist in the world as how they are, [chuckles] like say the, the President of the United States is who he is.
We might not all love it, but we agree on it, right? We agree that that is what is fact.
That is essentially the basis of the thought model is we have a circumstance, but the circumstance doesn't actually become good or bad or anything until we have a thought about it, and a thought is the sentence in our brain that we assign to the circumstance, or many sentences that we might assign to a circumstance.
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