From Sad Pick Me Girl to Alchemist
Jun 17, 2026 · 19 min · 11 segments
Spirituality isn't about predicting the future and pretending you're above everyone else - it's about learning to trust yourself. In this episode, I discuss common misconceptions about spirituality…
So with that, today I want to talk about spirituality, how it shifted my life, and how my perception of it has changed, but I also understand why people are skeptical.
And with any field of work that you're in, there are always going to be people that are less than credible.
That is one thing that I've learned.
And I like to err on the side of caution, but I also want to give people the benefit of the doubt.
So there is finding a balance.
And as I delve more into spirituality and start to interview healers and talk to different healers, I realized that The reality is not everyone is credible.
That's just it.
And sometimes it could be just a lack of alignment, but I really do think that we have to use our discernment no matter what we are doing.
Discernment is everything because not everyone is going to be walking the same path as you.
Not everyone is going to have the same viewpoints as you.
Not everyone is going to have your best interests at heart.
A lot of people are very self-serving and it is up to you to decide what is for your best and highest good, not up to anybody else.
And so...
For me, spirituality has been interesting because to me, the whole, I guess the main objective for me is strengthening your connection with self because I think that once you really learn to honor yourself, listen to yourself, honor your boundaries and be selective of who you allow in your circle, your reality shifts.
Now, I do think that to some extent, connecting to higher sources and having some of the messages that are clear from them come to you is helpful because to me, I think that I've And I've seen the most progress knowing what my life purpose is, knowing some of the challenges that I'm going to have to overcome, and knowing the general theme of my life and why I'm here on Earth.
That is one of the things that I've had to look outside of myself.
And what I mean by outside of myself, not necessarily like completely outside of myself, but really... figure out what I thought was going to help me get that message and then connect with people who had stronger connections to source than I did.
And what I mean by stronger connections is that they were more involved in their spiritual path.
They had cleared some of the blockages that I'm still trying to clear and they were credible and I view them as credible, are credible, I should say, not were.
So with that, today I want to talk about spirituality, how it shifted my life, and how my perception of it has changed, but I also understand why people are skeptical.
And with any field of work that you're in, there are always going to be people that are less than credible.
That is one thing that I've learned.
And I like to err on the side of caution, but I also want to give people the benefit of the doubt.
So there is finding a balance.
And as I delve more into spirituality and start to interview healers and talk to different healers, I realized that The reality is not everyone is credible.
That's just it.
And sometimes it could be just a lack of alignment, but I really do think that we have to use our discernment no matter what we are doing.
Discernment is everything because not everyone is going to be walking the same path as you.
Not everyone is going to have the same viewpoints as you.
Not everyone is going to have your best interests at heart.
A lot of people are very self-serving and it is up to you to decide what is for your best and highest good, not up to anybody else.
And so...
For me, spirituality has been interesting because to me, the whole, I guess the main objective for me is strengthening your connection with self because I think that once you really learn to honor yourself, listen to yourself, honor your boundaries and be selective of who you allow in your circle, your reality shifts.
Now, I do think that to some extent, connecting to higher sources and having some of the messages that are clear from them come to you is helpful because to me, I think that I've And I've seen the most progress knowing what my life purpose is, knowing some of the challenges that I'm going to have to overcome, and knowing the general theme of my life and why I'm here on Earth.
That is one of the things that I've had to look outside of myself.
And what I mean by outside of myself, not necessarily like completely outside of myself, but really... figure out what I thought was going to help me get that message and then connect with people who had stronger connections to source than I did.
And what I mean by stronger connections is that they were more involved in their spiritual path.
They had cleared some of the blockages that I'm still trying to clear and they were credible and I view them as credible, are credible, I should say, not were.
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